Posts Tagged ‘bigger is better?’

Podcast #23

Monday, November 19th, 2012

Podcast ↑ ↑ ↑ Video ↓ ↓ ↓ (Just in case you got distracted) Pegging Paradise Podcast #23 Letters, Comments and Questions ❤ Double Orgasm success – during solo play…! ❤ He has a health issue that sends him searching for a strap-on to use on his wife…and they find Pegging Paradise. Now she’s fucking [...]

Double-ended Dildos

Sunday, August 5th, 2012

Strap-less Strap-ons, Harness-less Strap-ons, Double-enders or Doubles. I’ve seen them referred to as all of the above. There are a number of manufacturers who makes these babies and they vary quite a bit. Let’s take a look at what’s out there….    Feeldoe The Feeldoe is perhaps the most well known and has a smooth [...]

Is Frequent Pegging Bad?

Wednesday, November 30th, 2011

All you men who love pegging – fear not! Here’s the scare tactic: If you engage in pegging too often, you will lose control of your anal sphincter and experience anal incontinence. This is such uninformed, incorrect and alarmist bullshit!   The best information I have ever encountered on this subject is by Violet Blue. [...]

Let’s Make a Deal

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

I am a regular listener of Dan Savage’s podcast. I started listening at a critical time in my life when I had a strong desire to reconnect with my sexuality after a sexless marriage ended. Dan was good medicine for that. He persistently advocates the need for embracing and exploring one’s kinks. That really hit [...]

FAQ

Friday, April 1st, 2011

Do women love pegging? What’s the best harness? What’s the best dildo? What’s the best lube? What’s the best position? It feels awkward…what are we doing wrong? Can she orgasm while pegging? Can he orgasm while pegging? How can I try to minimize the mess? How can I convince my woman to peg me? How [...]

Dildo Decisions

Monday, December 27th, 2010

For all you readers who may be planning a trip to your favorite toy store (in-person or on-line) during the holidays…let’s discuss dildos. There are so many decisions to make as a new pegging couple, especially for first-time buyers of strap-on equipment. And no one likes to invest a hefty chunk of change in a [...]

Ruby’s Mo’ Better…

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

Well, yes…I myself have made the transition to a bigger dildo for my strap-on… What was that like?  *thinks back* Insanely…Erotic. I mean…I’m pretty simple; give me an ass to play with and I am transfixed, enthralled and dripping. But the added element of increasing the size of my strap-on brought to play a couple [...]

Mo’ Better?

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

Is it time to buy a bigger dildo for your strap-on? Assuming you went out and bought a reasonably sized dildo for your first strap-on  harness (all the better to break him in gently), when is it time to graduate to a larger size? Communication is always best – just ask your guy! But if [...]