Bisexual? Bi-Curious? I want to hear from you. Next weeks podcast I’m going to talk about male bisexuality. I welcome all offerings on the subject whether it has anything to do with pegging or not. I’m concentrating on male bisexuality because it feels like another possible area of sexual exploration that can suffer when pegging [...]
Posts Tagged ‘misconceptions’
Bisexuality and Pegging
Wednesday, May 1st, 2013Podcast #45
Monday, April 29th, 2013Pegging Paradise Podcast #45 ❤ He took a while to tell her and she wished he’d done it sooner! ❤ She only found pegging because she wanted to wear a cock. ❤ The poignantly difficult time of being a man everyone expects to be dominant when he has craved submission and being a bottom for [...]
Podcast #42
Monday, April 1st, 2013Pegging Paradise Podcast #42 ❤ Her dilemma: His ex pegged him – she wants to as well, but after an initially good start things have fizzled. What’s a girl to do? (Happy ending!) ❤ He’s young and already well-versed in the joys of pegging. He’s kind enough to describe them for us…and send me pictures. [...]
Gender Role Assumptions
Tuesday, March 12th, 2013The one less than favorable comment I got on my BIL presentation was this: Cool talk by @Ruby_Ryder at #bil2013, though it had gender/role assumptions and stereotypes I’d prefer to see deconstructed. Excellent feedback, once I took the time to think about it. I presented my talk with a dual-pronged approach of pleasure and prostate [...]
The Stress of Being Straight
Friday, February 15th, 2013Dan Savage opened one of his latest podcasts talking about a recent study whose results seem to indicate that straight guys are more depressed and stressed than out gay and bi guys. That’s right. That’s exactly what the study seemed to indicate. Dan’s theory about why that might be true caught my attention. Here’s the [...]
Awesome Ass Men
Wednesday, January 30th, 2013Dear Ass Men, Anal can be awesome, as you well know or are perhaps just discovering. Sexual orientation…has nothing to do with what part of the body you enjoy having stimulated. You are the only one who gets to decide who you are attracted to, whether it’s men or women or either or neither. And [...]
Questioning His Orientation?
Friday, December 28th, 2012Yes – it’s that time of the month again when I try to counter the automatic assumption that any man who enjoys getting fucked in the ass needs to question his sexual orientation. No, he really doesn’t. All he needs to do is have fun getting fucked in the ass by whomever he damn pleases. [...]
A Little Clarity
Wednesday, November 28th, 2012So, dear readers, it’s that time again. Every month, I write a post about how pegging is not gay. Why? Because the assumption is so very prevalent that monthly reminders are necessary for all the newcomers to my blog. A reminder is also necessary for those of you who are considering trying it out but [...]
Monthly Misconception Alert
Saturday, November 3rd, 2012Pegging – an act where a woman uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate the anus of a man, heterosexually! Because, by definition, anything a man and woman do together is heterosexual. Ahhh…if only it were that simple. I’ve been writing about pegging and practicing pegging for long enough that at this point it’s a [...]
