Tag Archive: musings of a writer

Oct 04 2016

The Things I Missed

This is the third of 4 pieces about an encounter I had with a sociopath. The rest are here: My Encounter With a Sociopath Fuck You, Chicago Man Cleaning Out My Rooms This one   ❤❤❤❤❤   What did I miss? What did I not see that allowed me to engage so fully with a …

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Sep 24 2016

Cleaning Out My Rooms

This is the third of 4 pieces about an encounter I had with a sociopath. The rest are here: My Encounter With a Sociopath Fuck You, Chicago Man This one The Things I Missed ❤❤❤❤❤ Last night, I was feeling sad. I missed the sociopath. Upon closer inspection, rather than missing him personally, I missed …

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Sep 01 2016

Fuck You, Chicago Man

Please Take Note: This is a very angry open letter to a Sociopath who was a part of my life for a while. It is meant as a personal cathartic release. This piece of writing is not at all kind, nor is it meant to be. I am posting it publicly, for my own healing. …

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Nov 26 2015


9am on Thanksgiving morning. Soon I will be on the road, heading to my sister’s house to be with family. So off the top of my (cock) head, here is what I am grateful for… I am grateful for my sister, who is one of my best friends and who helped me come up with …

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Aug 17 2015

Personal Ponderings…

Fun fact: The men I find myself most attracted to are most often ex-military. Sometimes I feel as if I have a magnet for men who have served. Probably because I love that contrast of the uber masculine man who lets down all of his defenses, opens up and allows me to fuck him, allows …

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Feb 14 2015

Happy Heart Day!

Be sure to take care of your heart, as you walk through this life. Feed your heart whatever it craves as often as you can. Flowers in a vase, a hike in the mountains, a long, soft hug with a friend, the flavor of crab legs with garlic butter as it meets your tongue, the …

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Dec 25 2014

Christmas Melancholy

I feel it coming, and I hate it. I squirm and tap my fingers and check my mail too often. Poignantly and perversely, the mail I do get has increased importance, in direct proportion to my need. The need to be with someone. The desire to have a partner. The longing to share warm, cozy …

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Oct 30 2014

Top Sex Blogger Award 2014

These awards always make be blush a little, but the recognition is awesome. Thank you, Kinkly.com! I am happy to be in the world of sex bloggers, happy to be doing something I am passionate about, and happy that there are people out there who find value in what I write! Woo Hoo!!!!!!!  

Jun 25 2014

Missed My Birthday :-(

Wow! I have been so busy, distracted, preoccupied and perhaps a little overwhelmed…that I fucking forgot my birthday! Damn it!!! May 11th was the 4th birthday of Pegging Paradise! May 11th, 2010 was my very first blog post. Wow. I’ve come a long way since then. Pegging Paradise is my passion, my baby, my love affair …

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Apr 21 2014

Podcast #82

Pegging Paradise Podcast #82 ❤ A slice of Ruby’s personal life: The sad goodbye to Zach.  

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