Apr 10 2011

Who, What, Why, Where and When!

Ruby pic for About page


My name is Ruby Ryder. Not my real name, but my nom de plume.


Pegging. Strap-on sex. The woman straps it on. The man takes it.


For decades, I felt shame about my sexual desires. I suppressed them, hid them away and labeled them bad, different, and strange. Despite my attempts to suppress my desires and fantasies, they persisted. After my 50th birthday, I realized that suppression had no place in the life I wished to live. I wanted to celebrate my desires and fulfill them, not shame myself for having them. That's when I started this blog.

I discovered that there were a lot of other people who fantasized about and practiced pegging just like me! Together, we are letting go of the shame, embracing our desires and telling our stories....changing the world, one ass at a time!


Here at Pegging Paradise you can find out all about pegging. I mix a little kink in with it, because that's how I am. If kink isn't your thing, Pegging101.com has all the informational articles without the kink!

The other where question - I reside in the Ventura, California area and love watching the surfers change out of their wet suits when I go to the beach.


Right now, of course! Don't wait decades, like I did. If you have any interest in exploring pegging, do it now!


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  1. JOHN

    I’ve always wondered about something…how many men can actually get an erection when they’re being pegged? I’m one that can’t and I’m sure I’m not alone. Have you ever done a survey?

    1. DB1970

      I can’t get fully erect either, just enough to stroke myself off. But when she gets the right angle and hits the prostate the orgasm is intense.

      1. Ruby

        That’s the word I hear most often in connection with prostate orgasms – ‘intense’. 🙂

    2. Ruby

      I have not done a survey, and I’m quite sure no one else has, either. But if I had to guess, I’d say it’s about 60% can and 40% can’t. Many of the men who can’t are still able to come with penile stimulation, even while soft.

  2. callmeunclechris

    Too bad you don’t do webinars when doing events since being in Long Beach, we over here in south Florida could attend. You’re very knowledgeable and helpful about pegging.

    1. Ruby

      Definitely planning on doing more webinars soon!
      I will schedule one after the holidays, in January.
      Is there a time/day that works better for you?

  3. lo

    just need to know how to meet girls interested to pegging with me

    1. Ruby

      Here is a list of articles that I wrote that all address different aspects of wanting to find a woman to peg you. Good luck to you!

  4. KristiCoo

    I have just started listening to your podcasts, and I absolutely LOVE them. thank you so much for what you do.

    1. Ruby

      So glad you are enjoying the podcasts! Sweet of you to the time and let me know. 🙂

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