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Can Pegging Save the World?

Well, if there is anything that can save the world, perhaps it’s pegging. I mean, if you are asking me, of course pegging can save the world! How? Here are my thoughts. Letting Go of Control Variations of this sentiment

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Different Ways of Opening Up For Pegging

So let’s talk about opening up asses. But first let’s talk about the word foreplay. This is a word I wish had never been invented where PIV (penis in vagina) intercourse is concerned. Foreplay is the first act of the

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The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter

Bend Over as an Insult In my efforts to educate people about Pegging, one of the things I address is this patriarchal bullshit of using anal penetration as an insult – specifically for men. I listen to a political podcast

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The Simple Question That Has So Many Answers

Need help.Having some trouble keeping her interested in pegging me. Help please some advice DMs are open. This is anything but a simple question, as it turns out. Let’s explore the possibilities… These are all potential contributing factors when pegging

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The Right Lube pH for Where You Use It

Who knew there was a different suggested pH for vaginal versus anal lube! And I actually mean that. WHO knew! The World Health Organization (WHO) has different suggested lube pH for vaginal versus anal use (pdf). Isn’t it just the

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Ruby Ryder shares Movember information for 2024

My Annual Movember Fundraiser is Now Live!

Here’s my Mo Space to donate! And here’s an easy QR code, too! My Movember Motivation Every year in November, I try and encourage all you lovely readers of this blog and listeners of my podcast to help me raise

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Exploring My Inner Inertia in a Complicated World

Inertia can be powerful. What does one do when encountering a persistent avoidance in handling, well, life? That’s the question I’ve been struggling with lately. I’m not talking about the basics of cooking, eating, taking care of my body, my

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Ruby Ryder shares stainless steel chastity cage with lock for chastity play

It’s Good to be Clean

Masturbation Month 2024 #29 (Link to Part One) Cleaning day! What the actual fuck, thought Frank. Sure, he could see the point behind it, and honestly wasn’t well-versed on how often a chastity cage needed to be removed to ensure good

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Freedom beckoned, but the cage stayed on like chains

Freedom Beckoned, if Only For Two Full Seconds

Masturbation Month 2024 #28 (Link to Part One) Saturday morning dawned. Cynthia woke up early and went for a run. Last night’s sexy shenanigans with Frank were still echoing in her head. She felt happy and inspired. When she got back

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Sportsheets Thigh Harness offers the best kind of railing

The Best Kind of Railing

Masturbation Month 2024 #27 (Link to Part One) Times past when Frank had wanted to be fucked hard and powerfully, and Cynthia hadn’t been able to bring it, for whatever reason, he had resorted to suction cup toys. Solo play was

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Frank is in charge of the ride with this dildo!

Frank is in Charge of the Ride!

Masturbation Month 2024 #26 (Link to Part One) Cynthia got out of the bath, dried off, and went straight over to their toy drawer. She rooted around in the back and found both items she was looking for. “Yes!” She said

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Frank is Down For the Whole Ride

Masturbation Month 2024 #25 (Link to Part One) Frank didn’t have much to clean up beyond tossing the pizza box and wiping down the coffee table. He lingered in the kitchen a bit to give Cynthia some time to enjoy

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