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Podcast #279 – Challenges for the Old Folks!
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Podcast #278 – On Being a Good Bottom
Givers! I would love to hear from you – In your pegging world, what makes a good bottom? Of course it’s very individual for each giver and each couple. So tell me, what does your receiver do/not do to make
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Reduced to a Sex Thing in One Sentence
Women that peg and eat ass are wife material. I came across this comment on Reddit and definitely had a reaction. Ack! Why does this comment, and ones like it, bother me so much? To me, it feels so reductive,
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Entice Me Order Shipping Delay
Wondering where your Entice Me order is? This post is to let you know that Tiffany is dealing with family emergency stuff, and shipping has been delayed. She will soon be shipping out your Entice Me orders! So if you
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What the Hell is Happening, Ruby?
What the hell is happening, indeed! I wish I could give you a precise answer. Let me do the best I can. Rambling, introspective share to follow… So it’s early June. Masturbation May 2021 just happened. I started off pretty
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I Said, That’s Not What I Want
“That’s not what I want.” My statement was so direct, it could not have been mistaken for anything else. I’d said it quite clearly. What the hell was he thinking? Asking me to play with his ass…what the fuck? I’m
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The Shyness of Being Seen
Part Six – The Shyness of Being Seen Being seen on a deep level is unsettling for you. Now that I’ve flipped you over, you see my intentions, and I can almost feel you internally letting go, the better to
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Two Weeks of Fond Memories
Part Five – Two Weeks of Fond Memories Oh, Lordy, while we are on that subject, I have never met a man who enjoys being fucked as much as you do! We moved in together after we’d been dating for
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A Sound Fucking Commences
Part Four – A Sound Fucking Commences You’ve passed my test, given me a lovely collection of words, and made me laugh. You have certainly earned a sound fucking, and I have every intention of giving it to you. After
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Best Exercises For Pegging Givers
My beginner’s webinar impresses upon you that fucking is an athletic event. Givers learn to appreciate their partners so much more when they discover precisely what it takes to fuck someone; endurance, strength, balance, and grace. So what are the
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Pegging Paradise!! Happy 11th Birthday!
Eleven years ago today, I made my first post here at Pegging Paradise. Back then, my aspirations (pun always intended) were to be a writer of erotica. As Pegging Paradise turns 11, I realize I am a writer of spicy
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Use Your Words, Sweetcakes!
Part Three – Use Your Words, Sweetcakes I can almost hear the gears inside your head turning, which is pretty typical. Your mind is usually quite busy. But now at least your head is filled with the task of fetching