Of Soft Cocks, Men, Erections, and Life

(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there are different combinations of orientation and gender identification than the generalizations I used here.) When

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directional toy for pegging

What’s Up (or Down) With a Directional Toy?

What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some sparkle. Some shine. And some even glow. Stripes, glitter,

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Masculine Surrender

Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity

Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here. A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called ‘virginity’. I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but

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Silolis Anal Training set for pegging

How to do Effective Anal Training

I’m really excited about this new Anal Training set I found! And I want to tell you all about it. First, let’s get specific about what’s meant by ‘Anal Training’. What is Anal Training? The term is usually used by

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