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Power Play

Nash is a man in complete control of his world…until Amanda shows up. She plays a little rough and he loves every second of it. Nash tries hard to follow her rules. He succeeds…most of the time. Even when he fails…it’s a win-win.
Established couple with dominance/submission play.
6,200 words

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What happens during an erotic rendezvous between a lustful and sensual couple when there is no place for words? Carl and Julianne find out one rainy evening. An unexpected and inarticulate voice pipes up and fills the silence.
This story definitely has lascivious leanings as well as humor!
5,700 words

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Stranger Things Have Happened

Ever want to fuck a complete stranger? Vanessa did. What’s a loving husband to do? Kevin comes up with a plan but it’s anyone’s guess whether he can pull it off…and whether the stranger can take it all in…
This lengthy story reminds me of a VERY X-rated romance novel. A lot of action.
10,800 words

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Ruby Ryder shares art of woman pegging man restrained to bed in BDSM

Lessons in Lust

A more mismatched pair would be hard to find. But wicked and wanton Julie has what the tense and uptight Ben wants and needs… and he’s constantly wondering if the price she makes him pay is worth it.
Think Pink (the singer) meets Jon Stewart (The Daily Show).
5,800 words

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Ruby is Teaching a Class!!!

I am taking my show on the road a bit…this class in California on Feb 13th and one in Denver on March 2nd. Here’s the official announcement for California!!! Ruby Ryder – “The Pleasures of Pegging” • When: Sunday February

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Ruby Ryder shares art of woman pegging man restrained to bed in BDSM

For Your Viewing Pleasure…

I am finding examples of “3-D art” here and there on the web…this is a sizzling hot example. The tension and ecstasy and passion in this piece is mouth watering! (If this is your art, I would love to credit

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Ruby Ryder shares Dan Savage - sex advice columnist and creator of the word pegging

Savage Love on MTV?

Followers of my blog have heard me talk about Dan Savage before. He was instrumental in the creation of the word “Pegging”. I attribute my “coming out” into the world with my pegging kink and pegging stories to Dan –

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Ruby Ryder shares black and white photo of her wearing a strap-on for pegging

Fuck Like a Girl

I first heard that phrase in a discussion group I participate in. The question posed: “What was the funniest or most embarrassing thing you ever said while being pegged?” One man’s answer: “You fuck like a girl!” So how does

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Ruby Ryder shares woman black latex boots with strap-on and sunglasses

Is Pegging Dominant?

Can a man who is dominant be pegged by his submissive girlfriend? That question has been asked a lot in strap-on discussion groups. Is the act of pegging inherently dominant? Or is the act of getting pegged inherently submissive? One

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How Can We Encourage More Strap-On Sex?

Enjoy this post from a friend on…(where you can find conversations about pretty much any kink there is!) Nice to  have something from the male point of view… As a guy who really enjoys everything about strap-ons, to the

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Ruby Ryder shares cookies shapes like breasts and butts

Sweet Things!

I have always had a thing for asses. No surprise there, right? So I had to share this photo with you… Is there a bakery somewhere that sells X-rated confections? I hope so…

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