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Ruby Ryder shares black and white photo of her wearing a strap-on for pegging

Fuck Like a Girl

I first heard that phrase in a discussion group I participate in. The question posed: “What was the funniest or most embarrassing thing you ever said while being pegged?” One man’s answer: “You fuck like a girl!” So how does

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Ruby Ryder shares woman black latex boots with strap-on and sunglasses

Is Pegging Dominant?

Can a man who is dominant be pegged by his submissive girlfriend? That question has been asked a lot in strap-on discussion groups. Is the act of pegging inherently dominant? Or is the act of getting pegged inherently submissive? One

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How Can We Encourage More Strap-On Sex?

Enjoy this post from a friend on FetLife.com…(where you can find conversations about pretty much any kink there is!) Nice to  have something from the male point of view… As a guy who really enjoys everything about strap-ons, to the

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Ruby Ryder shares cookies shapes like breasts and butts

Sweet Things!

I have always had a thing for asses. No surprise there, right? So I had to share this photo with you… Is there a bakery somewhere that sells X-rated confections? I hope so…

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Ruby Ryder shares rear view of woman with pink panties and ipod.

Dildo Decisions

For all you readers who may be planning a trip to your favorite toy store (in-person or on-line) during the holidays…let’s discuss dildos. There are so many decisions to make as a new pegging couple, especially for first-time buyers of

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Ruby Ryder shares nude woman with music in ear buds

Membership Offer Ending

Ten reasons why a Ruby Ryder Story Membership would rate right up there as a great gift for yourself or your partner: You love Erotica. Couples can look forward to that story each month…make it a special date and read

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Ruby Ryder shares diagram of pegging strap-on harness accessory

Stupid Award of the Day

From the online magazine, “The Ladies’ Monthly”. “Why You Should Open Up About Anal” is an article directed towards women about the reasons they should consider consenting to anal sex with their man. Here is a short synopsis: Your friends

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Ruby Ryder shares diagram of male prostate and surrounding body parts

A Happy Solstice to You All

For me, Solstice is a time of reflection and renewal…a time to look back on the year with mindfulness and gratitude. First, I would like to shout from the virtual rooftops a big thank you to Dan Savage. Had I

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Ruby Ryder shares diagram of male prostate and surrounding body parts

Newbie Question – Supposed to Feel Good?

A while ago I asked my girlfriend if she would be okay with pegging, and surprisingly she agreed. After that we stopped by a small sex shop to pick out a cheap beginner’s harness set, with a tiny dildo (we

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Ruby Ryder shares cookies shapes like breasts and butts

Sex Blogger Needs Help

It’s about freedom. It’s about encouraging a sex-positive society. It’s about respecting those who live a little outside the box. Kendra Holliday writes a spunky, irreverent, pithy blog called “The Beautiful Kind”. Her writing is unique and daring. Kendra writes

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Ruby Ryder shares diagram of pegging strap-on harness accessory

New Word for Pegging Enthusiasts

My travels in the world of Pegging have led me to amass quite a collection of Penetralia!!! Credit where credit is due… I have to credit Babes N Horny for this word!  You might want to take a look at

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Ruby Ryder shares nude woman with music in ear buds

Holy Sex Toys, Batman!

Shopping for an audiophile this year? OhMiBod This is a collection of sexy, futuristic vibrators that pulse in time with the beat of the music you are listening to! Imagine hearing the beat of your favorite music that you always

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