Ms. Ruby,
I have been interested in pegging for a long time now and love your website with all of the great information.
I just recently brought the subject up with my wife. Our sex life had become dull and I was looking for a way to spice things up. She has always been open to stimulating me with a finger or small toy but had never thought of using a strap on.
I decided to buy one and on a suprise weekend getaway and I told her that I had it. She was so excited that she couldn't wait to get back to our room from lunch. We arrived back at the place where we were staying and I got everything out for her. I helped her into the harness and left her to get comfortable while I hopped in the shower to freshen up. When I got out she was ready for me with a huge smile on her face.
I have to say for a first time she did great, after starting slow and building a good rhythm she started pounding me like I couldn't believe. By her choice we started with me bent over the side of the bed and her holding my hips with the occasional slap on the ass as she asked if I liked her fucking me to which all I could say was "I love it, fuck me harder!" Then I flipped over so I was laying at the edge of the bed with my legs held high and her standing for better thrusting leverage, again starting slow then pounding me while she stroked me. When I came it hit me in the face! She told me she has never seen me cum that hard. By this point she was so wet it was dripping down her thighs, now it was my turn.
I wanted to say thank you for all of the great information on your site. My only regret is that I wish I hadn't waited so long to build up the courage to introduce this my wife. I have a couple of pics on my profile of our first time. That was something else, she made sure to have the camera near by. 🙂 I just cant believe how much she loved it, she says that we need a longer dildo though, as we are both plus sized. I had purchased a seven inch dildo but it didn't allow for as deep thrusting as she wanted as it would almost come out when she would speed up. She has her eyes on a beautiful TEN inch silicone dildo that she wants....
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OMG This is why I do what I do…you know?
I love getting messages like this! This is why I spread the word, tell people about pegging and answer endless questions about it…it is all about pleasure! About knowing that because of something I wrote or said, a couple has discovered another way to have intense pleasure together. That so rocks my boat, you have no idea!
Thank you so much for writing and telling me your story. It is so encouraging to other men who want their wife/girlfriend to peg them but are a little too afraid to ask. The way your wife was already doing anal play with fingers and toys – you were half-way there. And the longer dildo for better insertion is an excellent idea…not just because of you both being plus-sized, but as your wife found out, more vigorous thrusting makes it harder to keep it in…
Ten inches, eh? Sounds like you are in for it! Congratulations to you both.
Happy Pegging,
Ruby
me and my wife tried pegging for the first time tonight with a 6 incher it was INCREDIBLE we both loved it but my ass is soooo SORE!!!!!! will it always be that way after? It felt sooo good we both will be doing it more often!
Congratulations on your first pegging experience!
No, it will not always leave you with a very sore ass. As you get used to pegging and learn to relax your sphincter muscle to allow penetration, it will be easier. Also, have her go a little more slowly next time and spend more time opening you up before using the strap-on…see if that helps. Some guys are sore in the beginning, but not with more experience.
Happy Pegging!