Hello Miss Ruby. I love reading and exploring your site! Do you have any experience with the RodeoH Panty? It looks so much more comfortable and sensual than a harness setup.
I do, only with the lace harnesses! I had repeated (4 harnesses) issues with the lace coming apart, poor quality construction, and the fabric developing holes.
The first two harnesses were sent to me by the manufacturer for a review. On one of them the stitching came apart in the crotch area after about 3 washings. I repaired it. On both harnesses the lace threads started coming apart after about 5 washings. Manufacturer said anomaly on the stitching and apologized, and asserted the lace was of good quality.
Prematurely, it was at that point that I recommended them on podcast #114.
I ordered 2 more harnesses, as the others were looking pretty worn (estimation of 25 washings at that point). I so wanted them to work, as they are comfortable, look good and are washable.
I received my other two harnesses. One of them had issues with the lace separating from the waistband after the very first washing.
I hadn't used the other harness at that point. Since I paid for this one, I contacted the manufacturer for a refund. I emailed with pictures, including pics from the first two harnesses they gave me showing the lace threads issue. Her response: They looked like they had been machine washed. Well, yes. I was machine washing in cold water with a lingerie bag, and hanging them to dry. She chastised me and said I should be hand washing them! I felt silly, like I hadn't followed instructions.
I said she needed to use a better quality of elastic lace. She again asserted the quality was excellent. I told her that I had panties with elastic lace that I'd owned for over a year (and used more often than the harnesses), washed on cold in a lingerie bag and hung to dry, that didn't have any issues with threads coming apart at all.
It was at that point Tiffany pointed out that the label on the harnesses specifically says "machine wash".
I recommended these harnesses on Podcast #114, and I acted all chastised about the hand washing because the owner and I had just exchanged those emails and Tiffany had not looked at the label yet. I do not recall getting anything that recommended hand washing with the harness. I did nothing wrong. The product was mislabeled.
I did enjoy the harnesses, but they were not well made. Rodeoh Harnesses without lace might be better, as there seem to be a fair amount of satisfied customers out there.
Though I did get a refund for the one harness, I was really disappointed in the way the owner handled my situation. She blamed it all on me for machine washing even though the label said that. She certainly doesn't follow that axiom of the customer is always right. I frankly don't have time to hand wash and would not have bought 2 more harnesses if I'd known that was the recommended care.
Tiffany and I decided that Rodeoh lace harnesses are not well made enough for us to recommend without reservation, and EnticeMe.com would stop carrying them.
About a month after that...the other harness developed these holes in the fabric covering the O-ring after only 5 machine washings. It was pretty shocking. Yes, I continued to machine wash. Like I said, no time to hand wash.
If you want comfortable and sensual, try the Spare Parts Sasha. Exceptionally well made, and very feminine as well. Recommended without reservation! (20% off with coupon code Ruby!)