Tonight I have a quote for you, from blogger Lydia Netzer...
in her post - "15 ways to stay married 15 years"
"Get really good at sex.
You’ve got all the time in the world to get really really good, not just at sex in general, but at having sex with your one particular husband. You should make it your life’s mission to become the perfect sex machine exactly for him. And he for you. There is no reason to hold back, or be embarrassed, or not ask questions, and get everything working properly. There’s absolutely no excuse for letting years drag on without becoming fully skilled, gifted sex partners for each other. It makes everything so much better. Does talking about this make you uncomfortable? How uncomfortable would it make you to know that your spouse is secretly, silently “just okay” with your sexual performance? Yeah. You want to last fifteen years, remember? That’s a long time to be mildly happy."
Well said, Lydia....very well said.
What was going through my mind for #21? This guy. Doing all kind of naughty things to that amazing body...mmmmm. Simple as that. But the things I was doing to him were a tad less simple. We had fun.
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Completely agree. Asking questions of each other, trusting each other and being open-minded, they should be good foundations you think Ruby?
Those are good places to start, yes. The open communication is sometimes the most difficult for people – to actually talk about and ask for what they want. The thing is, if you don’t ask, you stand a poor chance of getting exactly what you like!
Precisely! And vice versa…