The Case for Cock Owners Using Strap-ons
Using strap-ons as a cock owner can be a revelation. I wish that more cock owners were open to the idea. Often they immediately jump to the assumption that the strap-on will render their cock obsolete in their partner's eyes. In their imagination the strap-on they use is always bigger, longer, and better. Let me open up your mind a bit...
How a Cock Owner Can Play Using Strap-ons
- You had an orgasm but want to keep pleasuring your partner.
- You want to be able to fuck your partner and completely concentrate on them, not the multi-tasking of staying hard but not coming too soon.
- Offer your partner a curved toy that will hit their G-spot or P-spot just right.
- Perhaps your partner desires something smaller because you have a large cock that is difficult for them to enjoy for very long.
- Your partner wants something shorter because your cock is long and hits their cervix/rectosigmoid junction with hard/deep fucking.
- Your partner wants something with texture/ridges because texture/ridges get them off.
- You want to be able to fuck your partner for a long time, perhaps through a couple of orgasms, and then do PIV/PIA hard and fast for your orgasm.
- When medication or age causes erectile difficulties, you are able to satisfy your partner's desires for penetration.
- If your partner has a vagina, you can use a strap-on to enjoy dual penetration
- If you have ED and want to offer dual penetration, toys can fill in both holes!
- For dungeons that do not allow genital to genital or mouth to genital play. If you enjoy sex in public (at these types of dungeons), a strap-on is a perfect solution! (hat tip to @MissA)
- Being told to fuck your dominant partner with a strap-on adds an aspect of humiliation/chastity to your play. (hat tip to @MissA)
- It may also be good for folx with less able bodies to experience penetration (giving or receiving) in a position that is most comfortable for them. (hat tip to @CruelTease)
Not a Replacement
Using strap-ons can open up a whole new world of more changeable, nuanced fucking for cock owners. Don't worry about replacement. You throw the equipment off the side of the bed or into the bathroom sink when done. The wearer is still the warm cozy body that snuggles with their partner and holds them in that delicious post-fucking bliss. Strap-ons will never replace a real person. Fun and pleasure is the intent behind using a sex toy.
Get the Best Equipment!
If you decide to try this, know that a strap-on made specifically for cock owners is important to have. Your dangly bits need to be contained and have a home while you play. Alternatively, if your dangly bits are hard and ready to go, you need an additional hole for dual penetration. Regular strap-ons do not provide either the extra room or the extra hole.
Spare Parts Deuce is the absolute best strap-on on the market for cock owners.
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