Since I wrote the review of the Strap On Me Bendable Double, many of you have purchased it (thank you!), tried it, loved it, and raved about it. Thanks for trusting me, since no, I did not actually use the toy to fuck another human being (just my pillow).
Others have been reluctant to trust my recommendation, precisely because I did not actually use the toy to fuck another human being (just my pillow).
So - some of my patrons have offered their reviews. For you reluctant readers, I realized these reviews needed to be on my blog as a follow up. These are from couples who have actually used the Strap On Me double (not just a pillow).
His Story of Using the Strap On Me Double
So here is my story/feedback/commentary, what-have-you, on the Strap-on-Me (henceforth "SOM" for shorthand) vibrating double.
As a backdrop, my wife has never really enjoyed pegging for herself. It has always been something that she does for me cause I wanted to try it. Rather she would prefer to do 'anal puppetry' because she can feel the sensation of my prostate.
When I initially showed her the SOM review from Pegging Paradise, she became excited. To date, her two favorite toys had been a We-Vibe and our recent purchase of the Njoy Pure Wand. This looked to combine her two favorite aspects of those toys with clitoral and g-spot stim.
Last Sunday, on my 40th, we were prepared to give the SOM a try that evening. However, we both wanted to test it out pre-pegging so that she knew what to expect. This came after a very long PIV session the night before where she came 3x. After inserting the bulb we turned on the motors for the bulb and clit stimulators. Her eyes immediately bulged out of her head. It was an instant success.
So we spent the next 10-15 minutes just playing around with the toy and letting her body get used to it. She then turned on the cock vibrations while I sucked on it. She typically hasn't been into that in the past, cause she couldn't feel anything and it didn't generate a power trip. Well, this time was different. She moaned and laid back writhing in pleasure while I sucked on her cock. Finally she admitted to getting physical pleasure from the sucking as well as mentally getting off from my submission. She could feel that transfer of power.
We then debated whether to wait until later to play with the SOM or do it right then. I really wanted to be mentally teased with it all day and opted to wait. But she had me fuck her PIV once again but didn't let me cum. Instead she pulled me out and rubbed her clit with my dick to orgasm. Now I have to wait all day to get my reward and present. I love her.
Unfortunately, we ran into a snag... she had become too dry and sore from the weekend's prior activity. That night when trying to insert the bulb, she was in too much pain and felt obvious disappointment. Thankfully, I was quick to come up with a plan B, she would give me anal puppetry with a blowjob knowing that we'd come back to the SOM the following week.(We call this a Z-J for any Beer-Fast fans.)
A week later, we got to put the toy to work, although surprisingly neither of us felt pent up "demand" over the course of the day. Anyway, we got her setup in the harness and turned on the toy, putting on basic settings for the clit and cock vibrators. After a little foreplay, we went in for play.
It was easy to see right away that this was different. Within a minute, her typical pegging face of a sweet caressing smile were substituted with a determined animal-like focus to get off. She went to town like never before, pulling me in towards her, getting aggressive in her pounding and unbridled-laser-like determination. It was if a switch had been thrown. I'm pretty sure, she came within 5 minutes, maybe 10.
Considering that she has never felt anything from pegging before, this was as much as a shift as one could expect.
For me, it was extremely pleasurable. Not only did her experience make mine more fulfilling (no pun intended) but the physical sensations from the cock in me hit in all the right spots. The vibration allowed me to loosen up faster than before. I had multiple body orgasms before she began stroking me. Eventually I took over, and then exploded all over myself (her favorite way for me to cum). I would note that I've only ever cum hands free once before 6 years ago, but this was easily the closest I had gotten.
Overall feedback: this is a fantastic toy for the female pegger who wants to get off on her own. As well, I'd recommend it for someone who goes along with pegging but doesn't enjoy it as much. Buy this with her in mind and put your dildo preference(s) to the side: if you want your pegging game to improve, you need two active and willing partners. I personally paid so much less attention to myself and so much more to her; that in itself is a reward and very fulfilling. It is a game-changer for us, as it will be put into regular rotation. I can't wait to see how this all ends up!
Another Testimonial From a Receiver
(Part of a listener's story. Complete version can be heard in podcast #268.)
We have amassed quite an impressive arsenal of toys, including the ultimate toy, what you recently dubbed, and what we also refer to simply as, “the game changer” – the official Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Dual-Ended Dildo.
That latter toy, Ruby, is all you made it out to be and more. In your review of it you said you had not had an opportunity to try it with a partner. Allow my gorgeous girlfriend and I to bear witness that the toy, with its three independently operated vibrators, is extraordinary. That’s the toy we work up to during our lovemaking, and taking its full length from her while on my back as she smiles broadly down on me brings me to an ecstatic release, an emotional unburdening and complete exhaustion.
