When is a No Not Really a No?

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When is a no not a no?
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When is a No Not Really a No?

A No is a No I can just hear a whole bunch of you ready to become keyboard warriors and remind me that a no IS ALWAYS a no and consent is King (or Queen, whichever you prefer). I totally

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Good Pegging is like partners dancing!
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What Makes Good Pegging an “Art”?

There are many parts to Pegging. Numerous factors converge, and result in a sexual activity that, for many, is quite complex. Exploring those factors can be a rather involved adventure. This is why I call pegging an ‘Art’.

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weird rules can cause a loss of respect
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Will Pegging Your Man Cause a Loss of Respect?

First off – an apology for the click-bait title. This piece is indeed about that subject, and of course there is no definitive answer to that question that applies to every person who pegs their partner. But here’s the apology.

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Can CBD Lube Make Pegging Even Better?

CBD Lube I decided to do some research into CBD lube! The effects of CBD used anally are said to be less discomfort and pain, and more relaxation and pleasure. When I researched lube products that contain CBD, about 70% of

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Find your joy, even if it's a saucer that sits on your stove
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Find Your Joy Amidst the Chaos of the World

Many years ago I was on a women’s getaway trip in Cambria, California. Back then there was a place called Seekers Glass Gallery that I visited every time I was there. For me, the experience of being in that shop

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Soft cock appreciation week
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Of Soft Cocks, Men, Erections, and Life

(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there are different combinations of orientation and gender identification than the generalizations I used here.) When

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directional toy for pegging
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What’s Up (or Down) With a Directional Toy?

What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some sparkle. Some shine. And some even glow. Stripes, glitter,

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