That hand on his head.
As I play with power exchange I find that some men really enjoy being taken like a man would take them. Not because they have any bisexual leanings, because they want that element of roughness and authority. Verbally I can do this just fine, but I want to get better at doing it physically. Like most women I have been on the receiving end of being thrown around in bed a bit while fucking. It feels awesome. (I admit, there is a little switch inside me somewhere.) I want to do that to a man and do it well enough to startle him and thrill him. It takes strength! (I'd better get back to the weight lifting.) And not just strength. It also takes the willingness and courage to just do it. Throw him around a little, roll him over and penetrate him with a certainty and confidence more commonly ascribed to a man.
That's what I was thinking about last night, the next to last night of masturbation month. I'll admit it intersected with planning for my next rendezvous with Mr. Great Kisser. I love planning.