Podcast #169

Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #169

❤ Patreon Update
❤ Large/Long Strap-on Insertion Clip
❤ Vagus Nerve Stimulation!!
❤ He asks - look for the pegger first or look for the woman first?
❤ His story of how they came to crossdressing and pegging
❤Pegging Celebration Time
❤His story of their gradual path to pegging
❤ She sends thanks for everything, and offers a pun
❤ She sends thanks for the answers, and tells me my posts make her wet!
❤ He shares his fantasies...that is all.
❤ He finds solo play hard to reach - suggestions?


Gigantic Penetration Link
Vagus Nerve Stimulation Dramatically Reduces Inflammation, Christopher Bergland
The Vagus Nerve: a True Information Highway, Bradley J. Fikes
32 Ways to Stimulate Your Vagus Nerve (and Symptoms of Vagal Dysfunction)Joseph Cohen

Liberator Pulse Toy Mount
Fuze Tango


6 Responses

  1. Dear Ruby–

    Listening to your pod cast and I have a comment about the finding a pegger first or find the woman first. I met my wife on a dating web site. It had multiple graphic question about ones sexual history– I went for it. Pegging group sex, anal sex etc…. My theory if they freak, I am still anonymous so who cares. Now I live in NYC so there are lots of fish in the sea. I am an advocate of letting your freak flag fly! Don’t stalk the ladies who have had the balls to let theirs fly if you are too scared to do it!

    And by the way I married a woman from that site and she fucks me regularly among other adventures we have had.

    Love your work!


    1. Yes – I was on OKC for a while, which has a lot of specific questions about your sexuality, too. The questions were helpful to a point, as long as potential partners took the time to actually look at your answers. Many didn’t, which brings up a phenomenon I noticed. As a woman who was honest about my sexuality in the questions, many guys sent messages who hadn’t looked at my answers. They presented as not a good match for me in their answers…like they wanted a monogamous relationship and were really conservative sexually. When I pointed that out they would deny that they wanted monogamy (or whatever) but gave that answer so as not to scare away the women. In other words they were pretending to be something they weren’t so as to attract more women…who weren’t compatible with them! They probably find a partner and then end up calling Dan Savage complaining about their sexual incompatibility! *rolls eyes*

  2. Dear Ruby–

    In deed, men are duplicitous. But I cannot abide my gender being cowards. I have been embarrassed about my sexuality for so long, that when I decided to own it, it drives me nuts that so many men ask you about this! It is still dating– a man has to listen, be attentive and really share– even if we are kinky. Just because one share that doesn’t mean you can put up with them 24/7.

    again thanks for everything you do,


    PS the cross dressing story was really hot– not my kink but your reading and honesty of the writer– wow

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