I've noticed…during my extensive travels around the sex-positive places of the internet, the following phenomenon.
A fair number of single men who are into pegging (or desire to explore pegging) will post extremely explicit pictures of their asses, cheeks spread, with or without a toy inserted. Kind of like a 'meet my asshole' pic.
This continues to puzzle me, because I have not met a single woman who enjoys a stranger's 'meet my asshole' pictures. I might enjoy them from a man whose ass I am currently fucking, but a stranger's 'meet my asshole' picture leaves me completely uninterested. Actually even more than uninterested, more like a fair bit put off. Just feels like too much to me. A picture of that sort is also too much (for me) if I am dating but not yet intimate with a man. Kind of like spoiling the surprise. Let me unwrap it in person. Don't spoil the surprise.
But you know, one person's too much is another person's just right, and I do try and hold space for everyone. I'm all for exhibitionist asshole pics, if that's your thing - share the thrill of a good toy and show the hole you plan to insert it in! I just don't think they work well to attract a partner, if that's what you are trying to do.
What I am wondering is…what do other women think? Do you find 'meet my asshole' pictures of men you do not know fetching? I'm not talking about butt pics in general, just the spread cheek explicit ones.
And men? Why do you post 'meet my asshole' pics? To attract partners? To satisfy an exhibitionist streak? Because other men do? Because women do?
Color me curious...
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I get msgs on twitter from guys wanting me to send pic of mine. I was like no thank you I’m NOT GAY
This is common, from what I hear – gay guys hitting on straight guys on the various social platforms. Take it as a compliment!
That’s what my wife says. She said you have a perfect ass so of corse they wanna see it
Yes! Every husband would want to hear that, I would think!
“Meet My Asshole” ????
What a great title…lol. I am not sure why any guy would think this would be a great ice-breaker of an unsolicited picture ????
It’s one thing if you were instructed to do it but its another to just arbitrarily send one. Will be interesting to hear everyones perspective.
When first entering the sex-positive world, I think some guys just believe that since they would love to get an explicit pic like that from a woman, why wouldn’t women enjoy it from men?
Great point Ruby. Think you may be onto something ????
Good or bad I am an a exhibitionist and am proud of my body. Is that bad?
Nope – that’s why this is in the article!