'Multi Orgasm'? That's quite a claim, right? I thought so.
But I just unboxed my new Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-on this morning and tried it out. It fucking ROCKS. Why? Read on...
Full Disclosure: This review is not a paid review, nor did I get the toy for free. To be clear, I paid for it with my meager sex educator income.
The Previous Model
I reviewed the Strap-On-Me Vibrating Strap-On (hereafter referred to as the VSO) back in August of 2020. I dubbed it a potential game changer for giver satisfaction in the world of pegging. Since then, a fair number of couples have agreed with me. No toy is going to be perfect for everyone, and it is important to match the toy with the preferences of the pegging couple. But the VSO worked quite well for couples where the giver enjoyed internal and external vibrations, and the receiver could handle a very firm toy.
Since then, the folks at Strap On Me (SOM) have been busy taking two great ideas and combining them. The VSO got a clit sucking face lift. I kid you not! Besides the clit sucking face lift (I felt compelled to use that phrase again), how do they compare? Let's talk about the details.
In the Box
Inside the box was the toy, a drawstring bag for storage, a battery powered remote, a magnetic USB charging cord, a Starter Guide, and a product information enclosure.
Charging, Play Time, and Auto Off
Charging for the new Multi Orgasm Bendable model (hereafter referred to as the MOB) is now with a magnetic charger that attaches just above the shiny ABS ring. This is a change from the plug in charging below the ring on the VSO.
The MOB took about an hour to fully charge right out of the box, the light flashes while charging and is solid when fully charged. The insert says it takes 4 hours to charge, so perhaps it was partially charged before it was shipped. (Discrepancy: the website says it takes 2 hours to charge.)
The MOB arrives with a charging cord (labeled with a tag, which is SO helpful for those of us chargeable toy collectors and sex educators). The insert with the toy says you get 45 minutes of play from a full charge. (Discrepancy: the website says a full charge will deliver 70 minutes of play.) There is an auto turn off feature for the toy after 10 minutes of inactivity (no vibes going). So if you fall into a euphoric sleepy stupor after playing and forget to turn off the toy, no worries!
Remote Changes and Toy Interaction
The remote has been changed to include an on/off button. To turn the toy on, first you must press the button on the toy and hold it for 3 seconds.
The light on the toy will turn on and it will give 2 short vibrations.
Next you must remove the tab protecting the battery inside the remote, or your remote will do nothing!
Once you have done that, hold the remote on/off button for 3 seconds, and the toy will come alive with all 3 vibes functioning on low power with the continuous pattern. You can also choose to click one of the buttons next to the vibe you want to turn on, and that will activate a singular vibe (as long as the toy has been turned on first).
There are the same three levels of power, low medium and high. There are the same three vibrational patterns; continuous, slow intermittent and fast intermittent. To change powers, press the plus or the minus, and whatever vibe is on will increase or decrease in power. Note: As before, you cannot set individual powers for each vibe. To change the vibrational pattern, press the button next to the vibe you want to change. It will cycle through continuous, slow intermittent, fast intermittent, and then back to continuous. To turn an individual vibe off, hold the button next to it for 3 seconds. To turn off all the vibes, hold the on/off button for 3 seconds. So that’s pretty much how it works. (Manual operation without the remote is the same; it will only allow you to turn on or off all 3 vibes at once and cycle through the powers.)
More Power...?
The MOB seems to have more power, to the best of my ability to discern. I turned the vibe on high for both toys on the giver's bulb. There was definitely a stronger vibe in the MOB model, but I could not find supporting specs to confirm that in the enclosures or on the website.
More Sizes Available
MOB has added a small size, which was not offered in the VSO. So that may be a plus for you receivers who like your penetration to be on the smaller side.
(Egg diameter: 1.53″/39 mm for all models)
Size Small:
Insertable length: 5.79″/147 mm
Shaft diameter: 1.34″/34 mm
Size Medium:
Insertable length: 5.98″/152 mm
Shaft diameter: 1.49″/38 mm
Size Large:
Insertable length: 6.18″/157 mm
Shaft diameter: 1.65″/42 mm
Size XL: 90
Egg diameter: 1.53″/39 mm
Insertable length: 6.38″/162 mm
Shaft diameter: 1.85″/47 mm
Still a Very Firm Toy
Be aware, this toy is just as firm as the original VSO. The most common complaint from receivers was the firmness of the toy, and that has not changed. However, if you are a receiver and would love to try this toy, but prefer softer toys like dual density, consider this option. Purchase a smaller size MOB and put a very soft silicone sheath over it! That will offer a smoother ride, and your giver will still get to enjoy all the vibes and clit action.
Waterproof
With the switch to magnetic charging, the MOB is now waterproof! The toy is rated IPX7 which means it can be submerged up to 1 meter in water for 30 minutes. Hello bathtub and shower play!
Different Shape and Flexibility
Another change I noticed was the bendable portion connecting the bulb and the shaft on the MOB is a bit more flexible than it is on the VSO. Still holds whatever position you put it in very well, though. Additionally, there a slight change in shape and size of the curve that embraces the internal and external clitoris. There is a bit more room now, because the raised part of the external clitoral surface on the VSO is is now flat on the MOB. I found this extra room helpful when navigating the optimum stimulation during my test of the toy.
Clit Sucking - My History
Let me start right off telling you that I have not tried out any of the clit-sucking type of toys. Way behind the curve, I know. Just didn’t get sucked in, I guess! (LOL) But seriously, whether sonic, licking, air pulse, sucking, or micro-robotics, I have had no experience with the clit-surrounding type of toys that have flooded the market lately.
This was my first experience with a toy that had something that fit over my clit and did a number on it. And honestly, that number was a 9 out of 10!
More of My History
More history - remember from my review of the VSO that I am a give me all the vibrations kind of person. I have burned through 2 Magic Wands in my life. These days my go to is the powerful B-Vibe Le Wand. It has a wider range of incredibly rumbly vibrations, including softer and stronger, than the Magic Wand. And if my Le Wand loses charge in the middle of my play, I just plug it in with the extra long cord and can immediately use it to finish. That alone is worth the price of admission for that toy. But I digress.
My point is that I need strong clitoral vibes to orgasm. So when I used the VSO, it almost got me there, but not quite.
More history - Please keep in mind that I have yet to orgasm while pegging! It’s a goal of mine, but I embrace what I tell receivers who are longing to experience a prostate orgasm; enjoy the journey and don’t get fixated on the destination. But I realize that there are many givers out there who are more responsive than I am, which is why I talked up the VSO so much. Most of you loved it, and found your pegging orgasmic bliss. So now let's talk about the clit sucking thing.
My Clit Sucking Concerns
I was concerned about two things with this clit sucking toy. One was a concern about clit sucking toys in general being too intense. While I need a lot of clitoral vibration, direct clitoral stimulation is often too intense for me, and probably why I’ve never tried a clit sucking toy. I feared my sensitive clit kind of being held captive in the opening and just feeling painfully overwhelmed. My other concern was whether the placement of the clit sucking mechanism would line up with my particular clitoral placement. Both of these concerns proved unnecessary.
How I Took the Multi Orgasm For a Drive
To test this toy, I first used it as a masturbatory tool. In their Starter Guide, SOM says, “We strongly recommend taking the time to discover the strap-on alone when using for the first time. Follow our user guide carefully to reach orgasm and then thoroughly enjoy everything this toy has to offer with your partner.” So I followed their advice. And this is where that number 9 out of 10 and my comment about it fucking ROCKS came from.)
Custom Clit Stimulation
For those of you (like me) who have never tried a clit-sucking toy, rest assured that it can be used a number of ways. Yes, you can pull your labia up and expose more of your clit and kind of insert it in the hole, in which case it is pretty damn intense. But you can also leave the hood of your clit down and kind of sneak it in from the side, or underneath, or from the top, and get less direct stimulation. Whatever feels the best to your particular preferences. The toy felt very versatile in terms of the clit sucking stimulation, which surprised me. Every clitoris owner is different and I’m fairly certain that there will be some givers who find that the stimulation is not in the right area for their particular configuration of bits - but it worked really well for me as a masturbatory toy.
I completed the assignment in the Starter Guide. Umm…yeah. Actually twice. In about 7 minutes. First time happened so quickly I thought - I’m gonna go for 2 and test out the name of the toy - 'Multi Orgasm'. The MOB lived up to its name. Surprisingly quickly, too! Even with my Le Wand, a second orgasm is often hard won and takes a while.
Rocks For Solo
So far I can personally say that this is a stellar masturbation toy! My blended internal and external orgasms were excellent. The magic setting for me turned out to be continuous on my clit and fast intermittent inside me, on medium. This toy really does seem to involve the whole clitoris, which is so much more than just that little nub.
The Proof is in the Pegging
Now of course the question is - how good will it perform with pegging? I played with the toy a bit, pressing it against me like I was pegging a partner, and I got the sense that it might be tricky to keep it in the right position for optimum stimulation. I suspect for me to get off I will need to be sunk deep inside my partner while putting light pressure on the sucker, and my partner keeping his ass pretty still.
But the MOB got me to orgasm so fast that I can’t wait to use it with a partner and see if this is finally the toy that gives me an orgasm during pegging. I do, however, feel quite confident in saying that the addition of the clit sucker has absolutely made a great toy even better. Stay tuned for my update when I get to use it with a partner. I’ll post a link here!
Still Not Strapless!
NOTE: I firmly believe that ALL doubles (erroneously called 'strapless' by manufacturers claiming they can be held in without internal muscles) need a harness! In my experience, only 5% of vagina owners can hold doubles in while engaging in active fucking. Here's the article I wrote about it. So I will be using the SpareParts Sasha when I peg my partner - like I did with the previous model.
Meanwhile - purchase your Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On at this link, and support my work! Free shipping with the code Ryder.
Testimonials From Users!
Receiver: Ok so an update on this new toy 🙂 My fantasy became a reality! Always wanted my partner to orgasm while pegging me and guess what?? She did! And we tried again just to make sure it was not a fluke and she orgasmed again! Yeah, and not enough that it feels good for her but the vibrations also felt so good for me Fuck, it was good!
She just kept thrusting. She told me that the toy made her move a little different because of the feeling on the clit and vibrations. So as she got closer to orgasm, she pushed it harder to get it to press harder on her clit. Her clit and lips are kind of inward, they don't stick out, so she spread her lips after inserting the toy so she'd have more clit contact. She didn't use a harness either time, but the second time she put lube on her part and then it came out when she pegged me. So we are getting a harness.
Receiver: Thank you for this! My partner and I got the previous model based on your advice at an online workshop a while back and have had so much fun with it - we just upgraded to this new one and yes, its ace! These toys are just so well made and there are so many play variations to be had with them & we always feel really connected using them 🙂
Giver: Indeed! Its AMAZING! Totally worth the price. An absolute high class, powerful sex toy. I will write later more detailed but it's definitely my number one favorite toy at the moment. Whether its solo or whilst playing with my partner!
Thank you again Ruby for this recommendation!
Receiver: ...I told her that I like to be fucked by her, and no one else. That I find her very sexy with a strap-on, and it's not that I want anal, it's that I want to take her anal. I would like to discover more pegging with her. As a surprise I ordered a new strap-on (Strap On Me Multi Orgasm) found on Pegging Paradise, and I know that my wife goes wild with the clit stimulation. A few days later, pegging was on the menu. And yes, she came twice, hard! And I got the pegging of my life. Hope we will explore this more because I WANT MORE!
~Peggers From Belgium~
Giver: I can tell you as far as solo testing goes, your review is thorough and spot-on! I cannot wait to use it with a partner. If it brings them half the pleasure I’ve gotten so far, I’ll be a happy girl! I, too have to be careful with clit-sucking toys, so as long as it’s on low, I can have all three vibes going. Also, love the panty harness you recommended as well. Many thanks!
Receiver: Seriously!! This thing is amazing. We've had one for about a year and its perfect. We both get pleasurable sensations, it's got 3 different vibrators, and my lady climaxes so hard every time.
Can not recommend enough. It changed the game for us.
