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A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called 'virginity'.
I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but especially for the intensely masculine receivers. Allowing a bit of feminine in to help find balance can be refreshing, wondrous and healing. Not having to be in control can be a relief, startling in contrast to the daily expectations of society.
And the stuff about 'virginity'. Whew. Perhaps it was an innocent question, but the word itself represents so much bad stuff, and not any good that I can see. Educate yourself. Carry the good forward and discard the bad. The concept of virginity isn't doing anyone any favors.
You'll hear this in the recording, but I will be leaving Instagram and Threads today, the 19th. There are a lot of reasons, most of which many of you will also be familiar with. I will not participate in a social media platform that simply doesn't care about hate speech and misinformation. Since most of my connecting with you lovely folx happens on Fetlife.com and Reddit, I can make this move and not have it affect me negatively. I'm really liking BlueSky. Give it a try - link below.
Info and Articles
- The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter - Article
- Bend Over and Take it - Article
- Virginity and the Hymen Myth - Article by NZ Sexual Health Society
- Here I am on BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/rubyryder.bsky.social
- Here are my TikTok videos
- Here is my Free Erotica
