
The Surprising Intensity of Allowing Someone Into Your Body
Men who are interested in pegging are sometimes quite startled by the experience itself. Why? There can be a few reasons, but I want to talk about this one: the surprising intensity of the act. Sometimes porn arouses a man’s
Pegging Preparation is More Than Cleanliness, Lube, and Foreplay
Let’s talk pegging preparation. When you first begin to explore pegging, preparation is essential. Sadly, few people go further than cleaning out, sufficient lube, and making sure the ass in question can accept the toy being used. Questions like the
Of Soft Cocks, Men, Erections, and Life
(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there are different combinations of orientation and gender identification than the generalizations I used here.) When

What’s Up (or Down) With a Directional Toy?
What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some sparkle. Some shine. And some even glow. Stripes, glitter,

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Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity
Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here. A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called ‘virginity’. I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but

Short Take on Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms
Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms! Articles and Information In this short take you will find an attempt at crowdsourcing for a gentleman who had a depth play injury at the rectosigmoid junction. He also had a horrible experience with

My Bodacious Tatas – the Movember Reward!
Are All Tatas Bodacious? I like to think so. We are not all audacious about showing them off, but they are bodacious just the same. And never was there a better reason for showing them off than my Movember fundraiser!

How to do Effective Anal Training
I’m really excited about this new Anal Training set I found! And I want to tell you all about it. First, let’s get specific about what’s meant by ‘Anal Training’. What is Anal Training? The term is usually used by

Short Take – What to Say and Big Toy Questions
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Short Take on the Initial Insertion
Initial Insertion Short Take Jessica’s question is common for new Givers. She’s concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion doesn’t need to be unpleasant for the receiver. For the giver, when you take the

How Pegging Can Save the World – Take 2
This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. The last piece I wrote about how pegging can save the world

Can Pegging Save the World?
This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. Well, if there is anything that can save the world, perhaps it’s

Different Ways of Opening Up For Pegging
So let’s talk about opening up asses. But first let’s talk about the word foreplay. This is a word I wish had never been invented where PIV (penis in vagina) intercourse is concerned. Foreplay is the first act of the
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