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My Bodacious Tatas – the Movember Reward!

Are All Tatas Bodacious? I like to think so. We are not all audacious about showing them off, but they are bodacious just the same. And never was there a better reason for showing them off than my Movember fundraiser!

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Silolis Anal Training set for pegging

How to do Effective Anal Training

I’m really excited about this new Anal Training set I found! And I want to tell you all about it. First, let’s get specific about what’s meant by ‘Anal Training’. What is Anal Training? The term is usually used by

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Initial Insertions require good foreplay!

Short Take on the Initial Insertion

Initial Insertion Short Take Jessica’s question is common for new Givers. She’s concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion doesn’t need to be unpleasant for the receiver. For the giver, when you take the

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save the world

How Pegging Can Save the World – Take 2

This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. The last piece I wrote about how pegging can save the world

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save the world

Can Pegging Save the World?

This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. Well, if there is anything that can save the world, perhaps it’s

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Different Ways of Opening Up For Pegging

So let’s talk about opening up asses. But first let’s talk about the word foreplay. This is a word I wish had never been invented where PIV (penis in vagina) intercourse is concerned. Foreplay is the first act of the

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Perfect position for rimming

The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter

Bend Over as an Insult In my efforts to educate people about Pegging, one of the things I address is this patriarchal bullshit of using anal penetration as an insult – specifically for men. I listen to a political podcast

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The Simple Question That Has So Many Answers

Need help.Having some trouble keeping her interested in pegging me. Help please some advice DMs are open. This is anything but a simple question, as it turns out. Let’s explore the possibilities… These are all potential contributing factors when pegging

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Butters Hygienics Butt Stuff Lube pH

The Right Lube pH for Where You Use It

Who knew there was a different suggested pH for vaginal versus anal lube! And I actually mean that. WHO knew! The World Health Organization (WHO) has different suggested lube pH for vaginal versus anal use (pdf). Isn’t it just the

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Ruby Ryder shares Movember information for 2024

My Annual Movember Fundraiser is Now Live!

Here’s my Mo Space to donate! And here’s an easy QR code, too! My Movember Motivation Every year in November, I try and encourage all you lovely readers of this blog and listeners of my podcast to help me raise

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Inertia By AJR - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXA62nnKDKs, Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=77000515

Exploring My Inner Inertia in a Complicated World

Inertia can be powerful. What does one do when encountering a persistent avoidance in handling, well, life? That’s the question I’ve been struggling with lately. I’m not talking about the basics of cooking, eating, taking care of my body, my

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Ruby Ryder shares stainless steel chastity cage with lock for chastity play

It’s Good to be Clean

Masturbation Month 2024 #29 (Link to Part One) Cleaning day! What the actual fuck, thought Frank. Sure, he could see the point behind it, and honestly wasn’t well-versed on how often a chastity cage needed to be removed to ensure good

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Freedom beckoned, but the cage stayed on like chains

Freedom Beckoned, if Only For Two Full Seconds

Masturbation Month 2024 #28 (Link to Part One) Saturday morning dawned. Cynthia woke up early and went for a run. Last night’s sexy shenanigans with Frank were still echoing in her head. She felt happy and inspired. When she got back

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