When is a No Not Really a No?

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When is a no not a no?
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When is a No Not Really a No?

A No is a No I can just hear a whole bunch of you ready to become keyboard warriors and remind me that a no IS ALWAYS a no and consent is King (or Queen, whichever you prefer). I totally

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Good Pegging is like partners dancing!
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What Makes Good Pegging an “Art”?

There are many parts to Pegging. Numerous factors converge, and result in a sexual activity that, for many, is quite complex. Exploring those factors can be a rather involved adventure. This is why I call pegging an ‘Art’.

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save the world
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How Pegging Can Save the World – Take 2

This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. The last piece I wrote about how pegging can save the world

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Perfect position for rimming
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The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter

Bend Over as an Insult In my efforts to educate people about Pegging, one of the things I address is this patriarchal bullshit of using anal penetration as an insult – specifically for men. I listen to a political podcast

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pegging
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The Simple Question That Has So Many Answers

Need help.Having some trouble keeping her interested in pegging me. Help please some advice DMs are open. This is anything but a simple question, as it turns out. Let’s explore the possibilities… These are all potential contributing factors when pegging

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Frank is Down For the Whole Ride

Masturbation Month 2024 #25 (Link to Part One) Frank didn’t have much to clean up beyond tossing the pizza box and wiping down the coffee table. He lingered in the kitchen a bit to give Cynthia some time to enjoy

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Enthusiastic consent
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Enthusiastic Consent is More Than Just Yes

Can We Talk About Enthusiastic Consent? We’ve all been there, when someone says ‘yes’. But you can tell by their tone, body language or attitude that it’s really a ‘no’. Whatever your offer or proposal was, their response gives you

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