So a while back I wrote short piece about discovering that someone found my website by putting in the words "christian pegging" and spent a lot of time perusing what I offer here at Pegging Paradise. I made some generalizations about Christians in that post. There were several comments back and forth in response. If you want to reference the thread, click here...
"KungPowP3nis" (gotta love the name) posted an amazing comment on that thread...about Christians and sexuality, basically. I wanted to share it with you all...it makes me happy. My response follows as well.
Ruby-
I’ve recently happened upon pegging in general and your sites specifically as a result of my investigations.
Let me first say that I LOVE your work. All of it. Amazing. Even the parts that don’t particularly appeal to me (i.e. sucking on the dildo) are so artfully done, and fit so well with the rest of the piece that I still enjoy reading it.
I ran across this older post via your post on Delilah Wood. (don’t ask me how). And even though it’s a little over a month old, I thought I’d throw in my two cents.
To give you some background, my dad is a minister in a well-known Christian denomination and has been for over 35 years. That being said, I was always told “love your neighbor” and “Judge not, lest ye be judged.” No matter what else I have learned about the bible, or Christianity in general, I have clung to those two tenets. Even if something is “wrong” in God’s eyes, I don’t see through God’s eyes, I don’t think with God’s intellect, I definitely don’t speak with God’s mouth, so it’s not for me to say what other people should or shouldn’t do. All other arguments are moot. I’ll ask God for the answers when I’m standing in front of Her/Him.
I would argue that if people aren’t personally comfortable with a sexual act, they have every right to say “I don’t like that” and walk away. It’s not okay to judge and/or condemn others for doing what makes them happy, whether it be sexual or not. The caveat here of course, is so long as no one else is harmed by that happiness – unless they specifically ask for it. But that’s another kink for another time…
I guess when it’s all said and done, God loves us all, and wants all of us to love each other, whether we identify as Christian, or any other flavor of faith (I hesitate to use the word “religion”).
Pegging (and any other sex act) for me, comes down to what two consenting adults do to share their love for each other, whatever shape that love may take. All others can stick it! (pun intended)
Thanks Ruby, For all you do to spread love and understanding around the world.
With great admiration,
KPP
KungPowP3nis (love the name)
Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment...I'm actually going to put this on the front page on my blog because I so appreciate and identify with your viewpoint. I can't say I ever anticipated having Christians on my pegging website, especially not leaving comments. I am probably guilty of my own form of stereotyping when it comes to Christians. Which is why I'm so glad that you took the time to write...because you and I think just about exactly alike regarding the intersection of sexuality and spirituality (I, too, hesitate to call it "religion"). I love being able to say that!
So I welcome any and all folks who identify as Christians to Pegging Paradise, and offer an apology for generalizing...assuming...or stereotyping you if I have done so in the past. If you are here, reading and enjoying what I offer...I am happy to have you!
Thanks for the wakeup, KPP. I am grateful to you. Truth be told, you had me at "...standing in front of Her/Him."
Ruby
