Finally!!! I have recommended this position to many many people - in fact I talk about it in every class I teach. So here's the visual, people. This is it. The "Chairman" position. It's really, really...hot. Thanks to New Ryder for the referral to another amazing tumbler blog (Ryder's is pretty awesome): Paris Cowboy. Stunning, quality, non-lurid photos, all Black and White.
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Stunning is right, great tumblr and great position
Adding that to my to-do list
That’s got to be a fav. And you can watch each other in the position as well
@SweetNFet – yes, not only watch but the woman has full access to his cock = yay!
Great thinking Ruby 😉 Picturing what it must be like getting it, along with an oil handjob…
that looks like a great position. will you make me bounce on it ruby? 😉
Mind your manners, Awe…
It really is a great position Ruby. You can see each others pleasure on your faces, kiss and caress each other, access to each others genitals…front and back of course…
It’s an interesting position all right, but I should imagine that thrusting is limited and secondly that the partner on the chair’s legs will quickly start to go numb.
Thrusting isn’t actually limited because the rider can sort of put their legs up and slide back and forth on the toy (or penis – if the genders are switched). I have been the rider and it was absolutely amazing. With that partner he also tried being the rider and loved it. I am 5’11” and 170 lbs, he was 5’9″ and I’m guessing around 150 lbs. Neither one of us had issues with legs going numb. Perhaps with larger people that might be true – I don’t know! The only thing I found difficult is being able to hang onto the back of the chair well enough to get a little wild with the thrusting. I even thought about designing a chair with handles.
My favourite on top position is the cowgirl. You get to look your partner dead in the eye, or you can make lascivious mouth movements at him/her. The only limitation is the height you can raise your bum on the dildo (with cocks it’s less important). Ideally you should have a couple of gymnast’s rings above the bed so that you you pull yourself as high as you need. Although this might not be ideal if one is in the throes of orgasm.
I’ve tried reverse cowgirl too but in my experience the cock or dildo is not really at the right at angle to be pleasant. Maybe it’s the way I’m built, but I find it presses too much on the posterior side of the rectum, whereas with cowgirl all the angles are right.