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Masturbation Month 2024 #25 (Link to Part One) Frank didn’t have much to clean up beyond tossing the pizza box and wiping down the coffee
Initial Insertion Short Take Jessica’s question is common for new Givers. She’s concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion
Masturbation Month 2024 #26 (Link to Part One) Cynthia got out of the bath, dried off, and went straight over to their toy drawer. She rooted
What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in
Masturbation Month 2024 #24 (Link to Part One) Oh yes, Frank’s heart swells, but you need the history. Let me explain. Masturbation Month 2024 is
Many years ago I was on a women’s getaway trip in Cambria, California. Back then there was a place called Seekers Glass Gallery that I
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That’s so true Ruby. Good on you 🙂
Thanks. I look forward to being able to practice what i preach someday soon…
Short, sweet and to the point – I am getting there but it is such a leap especially after 20 years of marriage. Maybe it is now time – I think I will feel free no matter her response.
I know of several couples who have experienced an entirely new period of sexual exploration and resurgence of sexual excitement because of pegging – after being married 20+ years!
Just take care how you tell her – read the “Convincing Your Partner” post first.
When I hit 50, I said to myself…if not now, when? It was an easier decision to explore pegging for me because I did not have a regular partner – much less have 20+ years invested. But still – perhaps the question might be appropriate for you, too – If not now…when?
I wish you courage and success.
Excellent advice. Indeed, if not now…when? courage, success and of course timing. Thank you.