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“I love seeing you like this.” My interviewee, Steve, has heard these words many times while receiving pegging from his partner. We hear Steve’s story
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That’s so true Ruby. Good on you 🙂
Thanks. I look forward to being able to practice what i preach someday soon…
Short, sweet and to the point – I am getting there but it is such a leap especially after 20 years of marriage. Maybe it is now time – I think I will feel free no matter her response.
I know of several couples who have experienced an entirely new period of sexual exploration and resurgence of sexual excitement because of pegging – after being married 20+ years!
Just take care how you tell her – read the “Convincing Your Partner” post first.
When I hit 50, I said to myself…if not now, when? It was an easier decision to explore pegging for me because I did not have a regular partner – much less have 20+ years invested. But still – perhaps the question might be appropriate for you, too – If not now…when?
I wish you courage and success.
Excellent advice. Indeed, if not now…when? courage, success and of course timing. Thank you.