Podcast #90


Pegging Paradise Podcast #90

❤ How the phone line works....
❤ He's concerned about large size play but loves being a size king!
❤ She stopped pegging because 'there's nothing in it for her'...how can he get her back to it?
❤ He's wanting tips for how to target the prostate more - he wants to be incoherent with pleasure!
❤ He gets specific about how his wife gives him prostate orgasms with her fingers.
❤ He's got a tiny butthole! What's a guy to do?
❤ He can't afford  toys but wants to start exploring AKA the household item question.
❤  She wants to peg him but is petite and he's not - positions?


Podcast about whether pegging will cause fecal incontinence
Article about whether pegging will cause fecal incontinence
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8 Responses

  1. Hi Ruby,

    Just a quick correction, Basix rubber works which is a product line of Pipedream Products is all made out of PVC. So they are toxic and porous. People, don’t buy or use products from this company. They are terrible.

  2. To the gentleman who is looking for something inexpensive for his own enjoyment, I’d suggest looking at the Tantus grab bag offers on their website. It’s the same quality gear they offer elsewhere but with a deep discount. Granted, you don’t get to choose the color but that’s not usually an issue for most.

    Just thought I’d pass along the suggestion.

  3. My fiance and I are very close. I come from relationships that were not open to discussing anything I desired sexually. It was looked at as I was not satisfied with what I had. The man I had. Even if all I wanted was my hair pulled. My fiance has more experience sexually than I do. He has done swapping etc. He has been able to do different things with different women but never able to talk to the same woman about everything he desired or fantasized about.
    We were together in high school for 1 1\2 years. I lost my virginity to him and I was the 2nd person he’d been with. So we have a history of 17 years. We can talk to each other about anything. He is the one who made the first move by talking about things. He made it very clear how much he loved me and that he wanted to do anything that I wanted to please me within reason. There wasn’t much he wasn’t willing to do.
    He showed me a lot of different things. It was amazing. Things I never thought. He made then comfortable, pleasurable and fun. I wanted the same for him of, course. I know I’m not highly sexually experienced but I wanted to try. I started asking questions and when he mentioned a FMF threesome, I was not apposed to the idea, but asked if he was willing to try a mfm threesome. He said he didn’t know if he could keep it up but he’d be willing to try.
    WOW… I love this man. We talked about it both in and out of bed. He mentioned several times he’d do anything for me. I tried anal and it hurt the first time. He then said he would be fucked in the ass before he’d hurt me that way again. He also had told me way before this, experimenting with an ex, she had shoved a dildo up his ass while sleeping because she was pissed at him for having sex while they were both drunk. He woke up and she ran because it was lodged inside him. He spent 6 hours trying to get it out before going to the emergency room. He said that was very embarrassing. But after telling me the story several times, he did finally say he didn’t quite hate it that’s why he waited so long to go to the ER.
    I felt he was hinting at wanting his ass played with after all our talks. Sexual fantasies are not the only thing we share. We ask questions and talk about a lot of things. I got close to his ass during oral and 69 a few times brushing near it. Playing with the spot between his balls and ass was the closest I had gotten, not knowing quite how to ask him if he wanted me to play with or fuck his ass with my dildo.
    Finally one night he said you’ve been hinting around at this for a while so why don’t you do it? I didn’t comprehend what he was saying. He said I’ll let you fuck me with your dick then another night I get to fuck you in the ass with mine. He handed me the dildo and laid back and spread his legs. I just smiled at him. He is a man’s man. He is all about his woman and her needs completely above his own. How could I ever shut down anything he may ask for without even a thought, when he gives me the ultimate amount of consideration? I did everything I knew how. I played with him and lubed everything up really, really good, because I knew it can freaking hurt like hell. I was being too timid. He grabbed my hand and shoved it in. I worked it all the way inside.
    I had heard guys like prostate stimulation I told him that and asked where it was exactly. I had guessed and was right. I went with what felt right. I did what felt so good to me. I didn’t jam it in and out, though. I positioned it to massage the gland and gave him head at the same time. He came in less than 5 minutes. An orgasm wave I had never seen him have! It was fantastic. I felt so close to him.
    He said of course he trusted me. He had someone he didn’t have to hide anything from. Did I know how rare that was? No. I love this man!!!
    Now, he likes his ass played with and I am happy to do it. I want to ask him about pegging and if he would want that. It would show him I am thinking about him. We are very open minded and are getting married in 3 weeks. I want to surprise him. After what I’ve told you do you think I am presuming or that is totally off the wall? I’m good about voicing my needs and wants and doing what he asks for. but I’ve never been this proactive. It takes the right man and woman or partners to make something like this possible. If we weren’t so accepting and loving and understanding we would still be scared. But we both have excellent communication.

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