
When is a No Not Really a No?
A No is a No I can just hear a whole bunch of you ready to become keyboard warriors and remind me that a no
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A No is a No I can just hear a whole bunch of you ready to become keyboard warriors and remind me that a no

Initial Insertion Short Take Jessica’s question is common for new Givers. She’s concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion

What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in

Let’s talk pegging preparation. When you first begin to explore pegging, preparation is essential. Sadly, few people go further than cleaning out, sufficient lube, and

(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there

Inertia can be powerful. What does one do when encountering a persistent avoidance in handling, well, life? That’s the question I’ve been struggling with lately.