Podcast #230

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1. Hello Ms. Ryder,

   Just recently came across your website and I totally agree that seeing a professional can be an excellent idea. My first time was with a pro and it was a great experience. I saw her not long after I broke up with my first and so far, only long-term partner. As some one who was sexually abused as a child, it was a very powerful feeling of being able to, and then choosing to give my trust to another person. During that session thoughts of past horrors disappeared which made me less much anxious in bed than usual so it became easier to focus on being in the present.

   I felt compelled afterwards to ask if there was anything I could do to please her and she gave me instructions on how to pleasure her orally which I did for almost an hour. I was surprised later after showering, getting dressed and was about to leave, she came down the stairs and gave me a hug and a kiss on the lips.

   I saw her a few more times and on my last visit I was told she was no longer there so I don’t know what ever happened to her. This was many years ago and I hope that time has been kind to her.

   I have not been able to find anyone to peg me since and since discovering your website I have been thinking a lot more about it. I am now pretty certain that pegging would have to be a part of any future relationship but I know that is not going to be easy from everything you have written and said here.

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   1. I read this and responded on my latest podcast, #232, which will be posted tonight at 8:30pm PST
      Here’s the link:
      https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2019/01/podcast-232/

      Thanks for sharing your story!

      All the Best,
      Ruby Ryder

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