Need help.
Having some trouble keeping her interested in pegging me. Help please some advice DMs are open.
This is anything but a simple question, as it turns out. Let's explore the possibilities...
- Does she like the equipment she has, the comfort and appearance of it?
- Does she feel sexy wearing it?
- Do you tell her how sexy or hot she looks wearing it?
- Does the equipment she wears offer her any stimulation? Does she want that?
- Do you practice good hygiene before pegging, making sure you look and small good?
- Do you want her to peg you every time in positions that are more difficult for her?
- Have you tried positions where you are doing all the work? (Cowboy or thigh harness.)
- Are you responsive as a bottom, telling her how good it feels and making noises?
- Are you verbally appreciative for pegging afterwards? Telling her what a great job she did?
- Are you a good partner in the rest of your relationship? Sharing all tasks, etc? Communicative?
- Are there any big, unresolved issues between you two that could be affecting all areas of connection?
- Are you including any other kinks with your pegging that she may not like?
- Are you actively trying to make her as happy as you can, in and out of the bedroom?
- Do you ask for pegging every time you have sex?
- Does she have stresses (Job? Kids?) or hormones that might be interfering with her desires?
These are all potential contributing factors when pegging is suddenly off the menu in a relationship. This list can help you receivers ferret out the cause, in case there is a solution. As always, everyone has the right to choose what they do and don't want to do in bed. Consent is imperative and essential. Solo play with excellent toys can help quench the desire of a temporary lull (or permanent no) in pegging, too.
Not a simple question, but always worth investigating!
Be kind to each other, keep communicating, and love each other.
