The Basics of Rimming

Rimming, as sexy and hot and intimate and delightfully nasty as it is…is not everyone’s cup of tea. Yet some people love the feel of teasing their tongue into their partner’s ass and feeling them squirm with pleasure. And many people love the sensation of a warm wet tongue pushing into their anus. It can be …

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Rights of Sex Workers

Okay, I know you were waiting patiently for a post about rimming and I will have that for you in a few days, but…I just ran across a very powerful video by “Audacia Ray” I want to share. It’s about the rights of sex workers…ensuring a healthy, respectful, safe working environment. I don’t know how …

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Doesn’t it Hurt?

One of the first questions I hear from ladies who are new to the concept of Pegging is, “Doesn’t it hurt?” Now these might be ladies who have yet to explore posteriors in any serious fashion – either their own or the posterior of their partner. Yet sometimes I think that reaction is a direct …

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New Parts

Have you ever had one of those moments when you discover something new about your sexuality? Something happens around you, whether it’s a touch you have not experienced before, a piece of clothing someone is wearing or maybe the tone of voice your significant other is using…and presto! You get an unexpected zing to your …

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A Discerning Porn Enthusiast

In the past I have had a love/hate relationship with the word “Porn”. To me it has always described the worst offerings of sexually oriented videos, photos and stories. In my mind, I would substitute the word erotic when I found a particularly classy and well done video like this one, a very sexy film …

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How Many?

A man who has not tried pegging but wants to, when asked what is it about the act that interests him: “Well, I figure 150 million gay guys can’t be wrong.” According to Wiki Answers, his estimate was conservative. How many gay guys are there in the world? Ruby Ryder

No Pushing

Patience is apparently the order of the day… Yes, I could push hard with no thought for your ease and quality of experience and shove this website into functionality today. But believe me, you will derive greater enjoyment from the finesse and style with which the final product finally slides into being. You will be …

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Aural Erotica

Memories…of your smooth body, shivering under my fingers. You undulate to meet my caresses, trying to get the most sensation possible from each finger as it slips inside you; you want it so much. New territory for you, unexpected…yet shockingly pleasurable. You come back for more, ask for it, welcome it…welcome the thrills. I stand …

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The Obvious Question

So why Pegging? I’ve asked myself that many times. Sometimes there is an obvious connection to a kink, a shining, thrilling  moment in your past when events and surroundings combined in an obvious manner that you can look back at and say “Ah! That first time I got to put my hands on a girl’s …

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I am a Writer…of Erotica.

Watching the crimson clouds of the sunset decorating the sky outside my window, at long last I ask myself the question it has taken me years to consider. What better job is there than writing…about…Sex? Sex! In all its warm, wet lusciousness and hard, quivering pleasure. Erotica has always been the furtive lover I held …

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