Okay – this is kind of sad, but sometimes that’s what you get. The thoughts that were running through my head were of separation and the sadness of losing something that was hard to lose. Yeah, I was thinking about
How Masturbation Month Originated Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders We all owe a big thank you to Joycelyn Elders, the Surgeon General under the Clinton administration. This was a woman ahead of her time. In 1994, this amazing, highly educated, progressive-minded
He did. Why do I use the word ‘let’? In an S & M interaction where the sadist (that’s me) is female, and the masochist (that’s him) is male, there is one ever-present truth I am always aware of. If
Poly triads can be tricky. Especially one where the two men are so different. Zach and Taylor are having trouble adjusting to living together with Ruby. They become pretty invested in competing with each other for Ruby’s attentions and praise. It all comes to a head one morning over a simple cup of coffee. Ruby is determined to whip the boys into shape and work things out. The boys surprise themselves and Ruby, too!
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My BDSM side came out last night to play in my fantasies. I was thinking about a story a young man told me. He and I never played, because he stood me up once. Second chances after getting stood
He had been craving it for so long. Ever since reading my story, “The Beating”, Zach had fantasized about being beaten himself. He’d asked me so many questions and finally proclaimed that it was his ‘newest biggest fantasy’. The fantasy
In my kink community, a few months ago, we lost a really convenient and cozy venue for our sensual and sexual explorations…and it was sad. It has also left many of us wanting, craving the experiences we enjoyed there, without
Listen to Ruby Ryder Read “The Beating” The smell of leather as I fasten the cuffs around your wrists and ankles is intoxicating and brings back memories for me. Every time. You are nervous. You’ve never been beaten before. But
This post delves into Ruby the sadist – skip it if you’d rather not learn more about that side of me. Tonight I am once again planning what I want to happen when Mr. Great Kisser and I get together.
Pegging Paradise Podcast #32 ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ Ruby talks about kink! Hers, other people’s and everyone’s. ❤ Kink words have different meanings to different people ❤ Once again – be careful
Pegging Paradise is run by Ruby Ryder (she/her), a sex educator, sex worker, and community organizer. Ruby is renowned for her extensive expertise in pegging and delights in providing shame free, equal access sex education.
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