If you are here at Pegging Paradise I assume you are somewhat familiar, or perhaps curious about, anal sex. Perhaps you have been a receiver and a giver, perhaps only a giver or only a receiver. Your gender doesn't really matter. I mean, it does when we are talking about pegging...because pegging is defined as "a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo." But this subject concerns basic anal sex in either direction, okay?
First Rant. Pegging, by definition, is heterosexual! I came across a tumbler blog that had the word pegging in the title and after scrolling through the first 5 pages of pictures, I saw nary a photo of pegging. Lots of women taking unnaturally large cocks up their asses (sometimes two)...lots of women giving head to unnaturally large cocks...and lots of "model perfect" bodies with their ribs showing underneath the fake tits. But not one picture showed a man taking it in the ass from a woman wearing a strap-on...or even just a woman wearing a strap-on! People, please! Correct word usage is important in the kink world...
NewRyder has it straight...check out his beautiful photos and gritty, intense writing. He uses the word strap-on primarily, and I try to sneak "pegging" in there as often as possible. But he gets it. Love you, Ryder!
Second Rant. I am so fucking tired of hearing men say that saliva is a perfectly good lube for anal sex with their woman. Bull. Fucking. Shit. Okay..there are of course women out there who enjoy a bit of pain with their anal sex, or have men who have copious pre-cum that takes the place of lube. But for the vast majority of us who enjoy anal (either gender), lube is fucking essential! I especially have a problem with guys purporting that saliva is "just fine" for anal with their woman when they have never received anal themselves. Guys, if you have not had a woman behind you with a strap-on the size of your cock and she spit on it and fucked you with it with no other lubrication that her saliva...your opinion is really not worth hearing. The woman you are fucking up the ass with nothing more than saliva...that's who I want to hear from. And if there are women reading this blog who fit into that category, please tell us...how does it feel when your guy fucks you up the ass with just saliva versus using lube? Do tell!
Personally I wouldn't even entertain the thought of letting a guy (no matter the size of his cock) near my ass without lube. I also wouldn't consider fucking any guy up the ass with any of my toys without lube. Personally, I think guys have been watching too much porn and they think that lube works just fine...they don't see the muscle relaxers that women take so that they can take huge cocks up their ass, and they don't see the copious amounts of lube used so that when the cameras are rolling, the guy with the huge cock can spit on her ass and pretend like it is enough lubrication. That is a fantasy rarely able to be duplicated in the real world.
As always...there are exceptions. I know there are some of you out there who enjoy no lube or just saliva. But please do not presume your experience can be easily duplicated throughout the anal sex community. It very rarely is.
Pegging is HETEROSEXUAL!!!
Happy Pegging and have a great weekend!