This is a MYTH.
Regular pegging will not ruin your ass. By that I mean you need have no fears of incontinence or a "too loose" ass from indulging in regular pegging pleasures. (There are extremes...I am not talking about over the top huge dildos or sharp objects tearing into your ass every night with no warm up. There are ways to overdo just about anything if you really try. )
Some things really bear repeating - so here it is from Violet Blue:
The notion of losing bowel control due to frequent anal penetration is a hurtful myth, perpetuated by our culture’s shame about anal sex. It is usually directed at gay men, though since anal sex has become popular with heterosexual couples, that myth has followed into mainstream culture, no thinks to pundits who confuse opinion for fact, such as Dr. Drew.
In fact, playing with anal penetration for pleasure actually tones the muscles, stimulates healthy blood flow to the area, and is a great form of exercise for the sphincter muscles. The more you use the muscles, the better shape they will be in — though because they are smooth muscles, not like the muscles in your biceps, they can’t be “bulked up” so you don’t have to worry about them becoming bigger from “too many” orgasms! Oh, if only there was such a thing as too many orgasms… I digress.
But as long as you don’t rush, you stop when you feel pain, and don’t do anything to damage the tissue, you may find that you have even better bootie control than before.
So if you are feeling some fear inside you about that dildo inside you causing anything except pleasure...even if you ask for it every night...read the whole post. Thanks, Violet Blue - you rock.
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