He’s Still….Not Gay

I'm in the mood for brevity and plain talk..

Every month I remind all of you - especially the new readers - that men who enjoy pegging are not automatically gay just because they like to be fucked in the ass.

In the 30 or so days between these regular "No, He's Not Gay" posts I encounter SO MANY people from all over the internet who still fear this is true.

Both women AND men! This perplexes me, astonishes me and lets me know I still have a lot of work to do.

Here's my message for you this month...

Let go of the fear.

If it feels good, just fuckin' do it. Don't label it and use that label to push each other apart. Be good to each other!

And if you just found this website and these words are insufficient, look here, here and here, for reassurance, logic, and exposed misconceptions about whether pegging equals gay.

This public service announcement will be repeated on a monthly basis in an effort to deconstruct the myth that men who enjoy pegging are somehow, inherently gay.