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Hey love,
I wanted to add something to the ever popular ‘how to clean the orifice in question’ subject.
I use an inexpensive bidet:
http://www.amazon.com/Ambient-Temperature-self-cleaning-nozzle-attachable/dp/B001DNY59U/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1428022273&sr=8-2&keywords=Blue++bidet
Been using it for several years now and its always effectively rinsed the ass in question. Of course, your ass may vary.
Much easier than an enema.
Thanks for all your care,
Tomas
Yes! Thanks very much for this information – I’m going to announce it on my next podcast! Love the way you said that –
Water pressure is also a variable — if yours is low it might not, um, finish the job.
And let’s face it, what wannabe peggee doesn’t enjoy getting squirted up the backside ?
We’re all kinky in the end.
-t
The photo of the model in the March 27, 2015 is very erotic. I would like to see my wife dressed in a top, stockings, and harness with realistic dildo as in the photo. Any suggestions where to buy a similar outfit for my mature wife? Thanks!
Well, I’m flattered. That is a photo of me… 🙂
The stockings/pantyhose I bought here:
You can get them cheaper elsewhere, but these are good quality and will last.
Harness – best one on the market is the Aslan Leather Minx
Dildo – how realistic do you want it to be and how soft/firm?
Thanks, Ruby, I am a novice, so let’s start slow. What do you suggest? I appreciate your website. It I well done, and is finally convincing my wife to try it. I appreciate your advise and inspiration. I learned about you through Joan Price, a great advocate for us over 50 that enjoy sex.
Wonderful! I will have to thank Joan. As a 62 year old – she is indeed inspiring. 🙂
I just scheduled a number of webinars in the near future, including beginning and equipment classes. Both of those would be good for you and your wife (beginning first and then equipment). To see what dates/times and register, click “Upcoming Webinars”.
If she has concerns or fears – I recorded a podcast for women to listen to after introducing them to the idea of pegging (if she has not already listened to it).
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/
It address all the usual fears and misconceptions, offers accurate information and emphasizes the *relationship*, not trying to convince. You need to listen to it first because only you can decide if it is appropriate for your partner. So far, this podcast has gotten rave reviews!
Thank you for the quick and detailed responses, Ruby. When i first explored you site this week, i quickly joined as a Patron member! One suggestion is as a man over 60 with a wife over 60, I really enjoy erotica – stories, pictures, video, et al, of people, male and female, over 50 and older. As I explore your site, I may find many examples of my preference. Indeed, hopefully I will see more posted by you in the future! Do you have any suggestions for a connoisseur of more “mature” erotica? Maybe other resources – websites? BTW – I really enjoy Joan Price’s books! Inspirational and erotic!