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(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there
What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in
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Many years ago I was on a women’s getaway trip in Cambria, California. Back then there was a place called Seekers Glass Gallery that I
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Hi Ruby, I will show this to my wife and we will have a good laugh….well done.
Thank you! Nikki is a funny woman, and I think they did a pretty good job with the subject matter!
I have to say it was refreshing to see the subject be discussed in this manner. I feel like pegging is talked about too seriously sometimes which can lead to a negative reinforcement of what many people already feel.
Wonderful job Ruby!
Thank you kindly! I think I was just the right calm, centered presence for Nikki to go crazy. But I do think there were a bunch of male viewers squirming when she attacked that clay ass…
You absolutely were. I love how her crazy seemed to crack your calm just a bit on occasion. True, many sphincters were clenched! However, I’m fairly sure a few mouths drooled as well.