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Givers! I would love to hear from you - In your pegging world, what makes a good bottom? Of course it's very individual for each giver and each couple. So tell me, what does your receiver do/not do to make your pegging experience most enjoyable? In this episode I talk about what I like, as well as some generalities that might be true for most givers (but not all!). Help me add to this list, or just tell me your stories!
Good Bottom Characteristics
- Responsiveness
- Communication
- Ability to relax
- Eagerness/enthusiasm to get fucked
- Expressions of dominance/submission
- Panties/garters/stockings
- Role play of your preference
- Care/cleaning of equipment before/after
- Cleaning out for a hopefully poo-free pegging
- Ability to allow vulnerability
- Willingness to communicate
- Making sounds/dirty talk
- Knowing how your body responds through experience/self-play
- Willingness to take a bigger toy - for me
- Be respectful/helpful of energy levels of the giver!
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6 Responses
Responsiveness
Communication
Ability to relax
Expressions of dominance/submission
Care and cleaning ( most important)
Ability to allow vulnerability
Dirty talk
Willing to take bigger toy
Pretty much i agree with your list as a receiver and as a giver i expect my partner to be the same ( at least keeping it clean).
I only got pegged once by American woman ( tourist) because here in middle east 99% of women aren’t open minded about pegging. When i got pegged first time i was silent most of the time as i was embarrassed ( because of our culture it’s not manly to get fucked and the man must be dominant i know it’s almost in every other culture but ours is so extreme about it. But i want to be myself yes I’m submissive mostly) my first experience was good wish i talked dirty more and her as well i want to feel submissive and communication would help
Thanks for your response – I shared this on podcast #279, which will be posted tomorrow morning!
Thanks, the picture is kinda funny,
the wife be like : let go the bar i dare you.??
And he is hanging there scared ??
Yes! I really wanted this to be a gif when I found it…
Hi there Ruby, as a giver and naturally the sub, what I seek in a dominant woman is to be there for her needs. When she comes home at the end of a hard day and is frustrated, for me to cook her a meal, run a bath and then offer myself up to her so as to help her forget and make it all go away.
Yes! You sound very service-oriented. Some women love this. 🙂