Women that peg and eat ass are wife material.
I came across this comment on Reddit and definitely had a reaction.
Ack! Why does this comment, and ones like it, bother me so much? To me, it feels so reductive, like the value of a woman is being reduced to the sex acts she is willing to do. She's a sex thing, instead of a person who enjoys certain sexual activities. The person part is missing there. Taken to its extreme, you could have a horrible, manipulative, cruel partner, but hey, if they ate ass and pegged you - marry them! I know that's extrapolating wildly, but still. I suppose it's not what is said, it's what is missing that bothers me.
To switch the genders, it might read something like:
Men who will take it up the ass are husband material.
Well, that's certainly one aspect I look for in a partner, but certainly not the only one. How would I change it?
Men who love taking it up the ass satisfy one of my important requirements to be considered marriage material.
That, at least, implies there are a number of other requirements besides taking it up the ass. Like kindness, honesty, compassion, service-oriented, financially stable, makes me laugh, adventurous... I could go on.
I don't know - what do you all think? Do comments like this bother anyone else? Does it sound like women are being reduced to a sex thing? Or am I overthinking this?