Day #16 Orgasm #16

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So how many of you out there are grabbing your private parts every night, stroking and teasing you way to yet another orgasm?? We are at the halfway point for Masturbation Month!! Joycelyn Elders would approve, as would Good Vibrations, who actually started this wonderful month-long celebration. More on that soon...

For now, this was the fantasy that ran through my head late last night when I finally laid my tired body down between my soft cotton sheets....

He texted me as usual in the morning to get his instructions. His orgasm instructions. He gave me control of them. I took that control and ran with it. This was the 5th day in a row I'd said "No". For a man who was used to jacking off multiple times a day, he was feeling it.

That night I grabbed him when he came in my door, bent him over the kitchen table, pulled his pants down and fucked him long and slow and deep. Must have been a half hour. That elusive hands-free orgasm he'd been wanting? All over the kitchen floor. Surely the neighbors heard his cries this time...

 

♥ Ruby Ryder

 

 

3 Responses

  1. Wow, that’s hot! Your guy submitting to your strap-on while you deny him orgasm by any other means is the definition of sexy. I mean, when you think about it, flirting is really teasing, which is really denying a guy something he wants and thereby increasing his desire.

    I go back and forth on how the denial ought to be enforced. When a guy complies without a device then you know his will is submitting to yours. He’s not being forced, he does it because he wants to please you. Your will has conquered his will.

    On the other hand, there is something hot about being forced. To be pushed to the very edge of what his willpower can accomplish, then made to go further because the device doesn’t let him fail… there’s something hot about that too.

    I can’t make up my mind which I like more. Maybe a good mix of both.

    1. Interesting viewpoint. I have not had any experience with the devices. I love the idea that he would comply because he wants so much to please me. The ‘something hot about being forced’ (and I totally agree with you there) comes into play more in my world with restraints, spanking, penetration a little too quick or large as opposed to denial. I love to give pleasure at heart so I’ve had to adjust my thinking to denial = eventual intense pleasure. Such a fun dynamic to explore, isn’t it?

  2. Very fun indeed! There is so much depth there to explore and experiment with.

    So true; to lock up a random guy who isn’t “into it” and who isn’t already smitten with you would just be pointless and no fun for either party. At the same time, bondage without ropes is also sort of pointles. I mean, how fun would it be if you told a guy, “Now pretend like I’m tying you up and don’t move.” The same goes for the device. Now, it’s not for everybody, that’s for sure.

    So for me, at least, the fun comes into play as you mix and match elements from those two perspectives. Sometimes you require him to do things because he wants to please you, his beloved. Other times you restrain him and let him relax and experience that thrilling “uh oh” moment as he realizes he couldn’t escape even if he wanted to.

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