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Amazon Connoisseur Harness courtesy of Tantus
Tantus Tsunami Dildo
Gloves courtesy of a leather-loving friend (you know who you are...♥)
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Saw your latest two pics on FetLife Ruby. Great design and colors, and love the fishnets and your great shape. Looking as stunning as you do probably helps any relationship, physical attraction is important. Granted, won’t mean anything if she and I aren’t best of friends, enjoying each others company even in seemingly dull times haha. Having this, will take the shared life, romance and sex to a completely differently level right? e.g. Kissing, laughs, skin on skin, sharing fetishes/fantasies and kink, of course including this delicious looking strapon…
I like your take on relationships!
Dear Ruby, I have written you before and have always enjoyed your answers. I have another question for you. On December 7th I made an order through velvet nest for a harness for my girlfriend. The only thing I got was a confirmation number from PayPal. I have emailed the velvet nest company now three times and not received any reply from them. Do you know if they are still in business? If so do you know how I could get in touch with them? If I can’t get an answer from them I will be forced to contact PayPal and get a reimbursement. My patience is beginning to wear thin. Thanks for your time.
K
I emailed them and let them know that if this is the kind of customer service they offer it really doesn’t matter what kind of product they have – I cannot recommend them. Waiting to hear back. I wouldn’t hesitate to ask for a paypal reimbursement.
Another complaint:
http://oursecretnights.tumblr.com/post/68452412894