Pegging Paradise Podcast #271 Part 1

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I must admit size depends on the mood most of the time I use my 12″ dildo and I go for depth other time it’s width that gets me off sometimes both

Ruby says:

December 8, 2020 at 11:22 am

Fascinating how what gets a person off is so individual. Certainly no ‘one size fits all’ situation!

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I wanted to share my experience of my preferred lube.
I have used coconut oil all my adult life as a lube without damage to any of my toys or to myself or my partners.
It can be eaten since it is already a food. It is so fine it makes for extra sensory delight.
I use it inside myself for vaginal lube, urethral lube for sounding and anal for fairly large penetration.
It goes right into my bladder without issue. Silicone sits in the bladder sphincter causing incontinence until the body finally gets rid of it via mucus production.
I also use it just the same on my partners and rarely have to top it up during play or sex.
Whether it is solid during winter or liquid during summer there is no difference.
Actually, I prefer it solid as I can push in a small lump which means a larger amount is deposited where needed at the beginning of a session.
It then melts inside without mess.
Cleanup is so easy. I found silicone to be hard to wash off and wash in the washing machine. It can leave large marks on the sheets whereas coconut oil doesn’t.
But the main reason I use coconut oil is that I can’t think of anything worse than getting a bellyful of silicone. That stuff is toxic! In me, it causes flu-like symptoms and headaches.

re the lady wanting to make an ejaculate spout. Has she seen stand-up peeing devices for women?
Some are made from harder plastic which are moulded to sit around the bottom of the labia while others are very soft (not ideal in this situation). I make my own as in the army I had to pee standing as there wasn’t time or a place to undress while working in the field with men. I used a square plastic lid from a 2lt ice-cream container bent into a U shape diagonally corner to corner and heated in an unplugged electric jug of hot water. Then removed and allowed to cool, it retains its shape. I would cut one corner off which was the downward facing part of the spout. This could then be used as some sort of mould for her funnel made from 2pack silicone with a hollow insertable end for her vagina. It would also catch fluids from her urethra.

I just love listening to your podcasts Ruby. So liberating.