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Ruby Ryder shares dark-haired naked man on couch with finger in mouth

So You Wanna Be a Pegger?

Think of this photo as a litmus test. Ladies, if you can’t picture (in lurid detail) pegging this man’s ass…I don’t think pegging turns your crank after all. I suspect that the majority of my readers are straight males…someday I

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Relaxation Woes…

Have you ever come across someone who is excited by the idea of strap-on training but can’t seem to relax enough for it to “work?” I’m that guy, I am so excited by it that it’s virtually the only porn

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Story – “New Tricks”

Ruby has finally caught up! I am so doing the happy dance right now…! March’s story is now available for viewing. And April’s is on its way…Plus I am still working on my latest project – podcasts…. Strap yourselves in

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New Tricks

When Natalie discovers her husband Steven is surfing porn as a substitute for fucking her, she does what any good wife would do…check his browser history and use the information to give him the time of his life! Established couple, D/s.
5,000 words

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Ruby Ryder shares dark-haired naked man on couch with finger in mouth

Simply Sublime Moments

I know…you didn’t sign up on a pegging website to listen to me go through my heartache. But there is indeed a heart behind this keyboard. I feel it’s a disservice to you if I dissemble and pretend. So you

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The punishment he deserved.

Let’s Make a Deal

I am a regular listener of Dan Savage’s podcast. I started listening at a critical time in my life when I had a strong desire to reconnect with my sexuality after a sexless marriage ended. Dan was good medicine for

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This is Why I Do What I Do

Ms. Ruby, I have been interested in pegging for a long time now and love your website with all of the great information. I just recently brought the subject up with my wife. Our sex life had become dull and

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Just One Finger…

  One finger… Trails down the space between your cheeks, Stopping to rest on your twitching, puckered spot. The spot that sends you…that turns you Into a squirming, begging sensory experience… Your ass and my finger; the center of your

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Ruby Ryder shares black and white photo of her wearing a strap-on for pegging

Search Word Wildness

I often get great giggles when perusing the search terms that bring people to Pegging Paradise. You’ve heard a few before. So here is the laugh for today: “who’s the bitch now pegging” Okay…two alternative scenes immediately pop into my

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Ruby Ryder shares photo of woman with dark hair crying holding tissue

A Price is Paid

Today, you get to hear a very human side of Ruby…because there is indeed a woman behind the name…with a life. Being Ruby Ryder…writing about pegging and speaking about it – teaching classes…recently exacted it’s price in my life. The

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Ruby Ryder shares nude woman with music in ear buds

New Stuff

Website membership revamp is complete! You can now read your stories on-line from anywhere you happen to be….in bed with a fetching partner, on a tropical beach or at your local Barnes and Noble (squirming in your seat). No more

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