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This is Why I Do What I Do

Ms. Ruby, I have been interested in pegging for a long time now and love your website with all of the great information. I just recently brought the subject up with my wife. Our sex life had become dull and

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Ruby Ryder shares example of women who love pegging
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Do Women Love Pegging?

Yes, there are indeed many givers who love pegging. All givers are different and their specific reasons for enjoying strap-on sex are as many and varied as the individual givers are. Some givers enjoy pegging as another tender, sensual addition

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Ruby Ryder shares art of woman pegging man restrained to bed in BDSM
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The First Time

Brian experiences a few “firsts” in his spontaneous encounter with the lovely Lani Cooke. She is a bit more than he bargained for, but he is not complaining. Discover what happens when a man can’t say no…
This story is for anyone who has ever found another truly irresistible. Even if the timing is not right…even if you know you should say “No”. Sometimes those stories have happy endings.
5,900 words

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Ruby Ryder shares black and white photo of her wearing a strap-on for pegging
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Fuck Like a Girl

I first heard that phrase in a discussion group I participate in. The question posed: “What was the funniest or most embarrassing thing you ever said while being pegged?” One man’s answer: “You fuck like a girl!” So how does

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Ruby Ryder shares rear view of woman with pink panties and ipod.
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Dildo Decisions

For all you readers who may be planning a trip to your favorite toy store (in-person or on-line) during the holidays…let’s discuss dildos. There are so many decisions to make as a new pegging couple, especially for first-time buyers of

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Ruby Ryder shares diagram of male prostate and surrounding body parts
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Newbie Question – Supposed to Feel Good?

A while ago I asked my girlfriend if she would be okay with pegging, and surprisingly she agreed. After that we stopped by a small sex shop to pick out a cheap beginner’s harness set, with a tiny dildo (we

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Ruby Ryder shares man in shower with Xplay Pro system for cleaning out before pegging
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Keeping Clean and Pegging

Keeping clean during pegging is something both givers and receivers are concerned about. A common question I get is: How Can We Make Our Pegging Experience Cleaner? First, there is no way around the fact that the orifice you are

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Ruby Ryder shares nude photo wearing strap-on harness and dildo for pegging
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Frustrated Wannabe Peggee

From a Reader: Well, I guess I can only say I have really had it done to me once, and it was very brief …and I absolutely loved it. For the longest time pegging had always been something that really

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Ruby Ryder Shares purple double-ended dildo used for pegging
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A Question for the Gentlemen

So…you lovely fellows who have discovered your love of Pegging… Just how did that happen? What changed in your world so that you found yourself dreaming about being on the receiving end of a strap-on? Smooth transition? Rough transition? Tell

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Ruby Ryder Shares purple double-ended dildo used for pegging
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Mo’ Better?

Is it time to buy a bigger dildo for your strap-on? Assuming you went out and bought a reasonably sized dildo for your first strap-on  harness (all the better to break him in gently), when is it time to graduate

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