Reiteration Day!

re·it·er·ate

   [ree-it-uh-reyt]

to say or do again or repeatedly; repeat, often excessively.

Just about every day, as the awareness of and interest in male strap-on play sweeps around the world, I receive a question from someone full of concerns, questions, fears and most of all, misconceptions about pegging. The same themes present in these questions over and over again. So I thought, today will be my day of reiteration...

For Her...

No he's NOT GAY

♥ No, he does not want a man to replace you
♥ No, he does not secretly want a cock
♥ No, pegging him will not magically turn him gay
♥ He just wants you to fuck him in the ass
♥ Honest

((If he is bisexual, disregard this one)

No it doesn't hurt.

♥ Yes it feels good
♥ As long as you do it right
♥ Really good
♥ Honest

No you will not look ridiculous wearing a strap-on

♥ He will think you look hot, I guarantee
♥ Are you kidding? He's been fantasizing about this...
♥ So hot he might come just looking at you
♥ Honest

No, pegging is not like the pegging in porn

♥ No it is not humiliating
♥ No it is not degrading
♥ No he does not have to dress like a woman
♥ No you don't have to yell at him and hit him
♥ He just wants you to fuck him in the ass
♥ Honest
(Disclaimer - if you are into any of these kinks, disregard this one)

For Him

No, you are NOT GAY

♥ No, wanting to be pegged does not make you gay
♥ No, being pegged will not magically turn you gay
♥ Yes, you still love breasts and pussies
♥ Which means you are not gay
♥ Even though you want her to fuck you in the ass
♥ It's all okay
♥ Honest

(If you are bisexual - disregard this one)

No, it doesn't hurt

♥ Yes. it feels good
♥ As long as she does it right
♥ Really good
♥ Honest

No, it will not compromise your masculinity

♥ Yes, she will respect you in the morning
♥ Yes, you can continue being a man's man
♥ It's all okay
♥ Honest

No, pegging is not like the pegging in porn

♥ No humiliation
♥ No degradation
♥ No feminization
♥ No verbal and physical abuse
♥ She really can just fuck you in the ass
♥ Without all that stuff
♥ Honest
(Disclaimer - if you are into any of these kinks, disregard this one)

I might just post this once a month. There are so many people that need to hear it...repeatedly.

5 Responses

  1. Suggestion to all guys – keep a copy of this in your pocket. Use it to clear up the misconceptions and start a dialogue. It’s fun to discuss the many nuances of pegging and just might lead to the fireworks within!

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