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Ruby Ryder shares pic of Todd Sanfield, from the photography book Motels/Hotels

Reassurance for the Awesome Ass Men

Dear Ass Men, Anal can be awesome, as you well know or are perhaps just discovering. Sexual orientation…has nothing to do with what part of the body you enjoy having stimulated. You are the only one who decides who you

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

Podcast #33

Pegging Paradise Podcast #33 ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ Love letters from my last podcast – awwww, thanks everyone. ❤ Why don’t (most) Pro Dommes do pegging? ❤ Pegging Celebration! ❤ Their dildos

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

The Night My Wife Pegged Me

This is an awesome article in Role Reboot about an initially reluctant man who explores pegging with his wife. The male point of view is rare to hear and his take on their sexual journey is really well written. Highly

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

Podcast #32

Pegging Paradise Podcast #32 ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ Ruby talks about kink! Hers, other people’s and everyone’s. ❤ Kink words have different meanings to different people ❤ Once again – be careful

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Ruby Ryder shares pic of Todd Sanfield, from the photography book Motels/Hotels

Feb 16 Classes in CA!

Saturday February 16th, 2013 Ventura, California Kama Sutra Closet Strap-on Sex, or Pegging, offers an entirely new dimension of pleasure for couples to add to their treasure chest of sexual choices. Join Ruby Ryder for an evening of colorful and

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

Podcast #31

Pegging Paradise Podcast #31 ❤ Taking it slow – from the concept of pegging to the decision to try it to the anal exploration with fingers, toys, dildos and finally the strap-on. Don’t miss any of those stages – they

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

Worth It

This is the way they play…she goes out dancing, gets all hot and bothered and then comes home to him. Of course she has her way with him at that point. How that happens you’ll have to read the story to find out. He’s her bitch and he loves everything about that role. Always.
Established couple, CFNM, D/s, packing
2000 words

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New Story Posted!

  Worth It   Here’s the Teaser: This is the way they play…she goes out dancing, gets all hot and bothered and then comes home to him. Of course she has her way with him at that point. How that

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

Podcast #30

Pegging Paradise Podcast #30 ❤ He is still trying to convince her and she’s resisting. I explore all the possible reasons why and his choices at this point. ❤ A lovely sex-positive note cheering on the older, adventurous and sexually

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Ruby Ryder shares pic of Todd Sanfield, from the photography book Motels/Hotels

We Cross Paths Again

Have you ever met someone you were so intensely attracted to that it’s a visceral experience? An experience so strong you are powerless to resist it? Yeah. Had that. Tonight. Again. He’s unavailable. Completely unavailable for so many good reasons.

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Ruby Ryder pegging BDSM

I Cannot Fathom…

  Fisting is not something I have explored. I may at some point. But the eloquence and heartfelt nature of the words here is profound. I had to share.  

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