The vanilla dating adventure continues. Tonight I had dinner with a lovely man who looked for all the world to be a very conservative guy from his pics and profile. He wasn’t scared away when I told him I write
So more about my little foray into the world of Vanilla online dating. Thinking that perhaps there I could find a nice, stable, sane, accomplished man who is just waiting for a woman like me to corrupt him with a
Here’s my news… I have entered back into the world of Vanilla Dating. On an online website. I was there once before. Pre-website, pre-Ruby, pre-exploring my kinky side. In my travels within the kinky community I have encountered mostly
Pegging Paradise Podcast #13 ↑↑↑ Click here to listen to the podcast… ↑↑↑ Thanks to my reader who wrote in with some very good questions about… ♥Toy Ownership Protocols ♥ Who gets them when a relationship ends? ♥ Is
Here’s how I find these. I pull up my Google analytics, look at the organic search stats and check out the list of search terms that people used to find me. Then I click on the top of the “average
I received this story from a reader who wishes to remain anonymous, but desired to share his story about how he discovered pegging. It is a very unusual story. For most men there is a lot fear of being seen
Pegging Paradise Q&A Podcast #7 ↑↑↑ Click here to listen to the podcast… ↑↑↑ ♥ This couple is making some good progress toward pegging (ass play, prostate play, toys) but she’s hesitant. He’s wondering if he should get the equipment
Pegging Paradise Q&A Podcast #6 ↑↑↑ Click here to listen to the podcast… ↑↑↑ ♥ For the listener last week who wanted to combine pegging with chastity? “TallLightHandsome” helped out with an amazing amount of information about the various motivations
Yin and Yang. Male and Female energy. We all have both. Ideally, if you are a man you have mainly male energy with a bit of female energy. As a woman, ideally you have mostly female energy with a bit
Okay, so Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Listen up, all you people with partners! You need to remember something. Please keep in mind Dan Savage’s sage advice for Valentine’s Day: Fuck First Think about it. All kinds of
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