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Pegging – Not Her Thing

About 2 months ago I posted a letter, which you can find here, that was written to me from a woman. Her SO had asked her to peg him and she tried it once and didn’t like it, for a

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Holy Grail of Pegging Lubes!!

I’ve been on a search for the perfect pegging lube for some time now. I know we all have our favorites, but these are the characteristics I was looking for: ❤  vegan!❤  Safe to use with silicone toys (seems like

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Fucking Amazing

I’ve been fucking guys in the ass for some time now. But recently I discovered there was more to turning a regular encounter into amazing fucking. With my notoriety as Ruby Ryder, I think many people believe I get to fuck

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New Story Posted!

Battle Buddies Poly triads can be tricky. Especially one where the two men are so different. Zach and Taylor are having trouble adjusting to living together with Ruby. They become pretty invested in competing with each other for Ruby’s attentions

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Battle Buddies

Poly triads can be tricky. Especially one where the two men are so different. Zach and Taylor are having trouble adjusting to living together with Ruby. They become pretty invested in competing with each other for Ruby’s attentions and praise. It all comes to a head one morning over a simple cup of coffee. Ruby is determined to whip the boys into shape and work things out. The boys surprise themselves and Ruby, too!
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polyamory, bisexuality, bdsm, relationships

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Podcast #91

Pegging – An Idea Whose Time Has Come! Pegging Paradise Podcast #91   ❤ As a Pegging Sex Educator – sometimes Shit Happens ❤ Bisexuality Awareness Week – Belatedly ❤ Cheap beginner toys = Tantus Grab Bag ❤ Width vs Length – he’s

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Latex, Anyone?

Here’s just one of the beautiful photos from the latest photo shoot by our friends over at Coiled-up.com If you love pegging and you love latex….you really need to click right here and take a look! Makes me want to

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Podcast #90

Pegging Paradise Podcast #90 ❤ How the phone line works…. ❤ He’s concerned about large size play but loves being a size king! ❤ She stopped pegging because ‘there’s nothing in it for her’…how can he get her back to it? ❤ He’s wanting tips for

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You – Top 10 Cities!

London New York Los Angeles Chicago Melbourne Houston Sydney Toronto Seattle Tempe   London! You surprise me, London.  (Moves a trip across the pond up higher on my ‘to do’ list.) New York…no surprise there. There are so many of

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No Fun For Her – Yet

This comment was left on my Pegging 101 website. This woman’s experience is not unique. I thought it needed front page exposure. Please feel free to copy this and share it as widely as you like – Let’s get the

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A DIY Harness!

So you save up and get that dildo you have always been wanting and sometimes it’s a little tough to afford the harness, too. Solution? Consider this DIY harness!   Thanks to Isabella Rotman for this excellent idea! Not to

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The Tantus Sport

Tantus’  dildos are among my favorite. They are a great company that has an unbending dedication to providing us all with body-safe non-toxic toys that are often exactly what we have been wanting for a long time or even better,

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