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Gender Role Assumptions

The one less than favorable comment I got on my BIL presentation was this: Cool talk by @Ruby_Ryder at #bil2013, though it had gender/role assumptions and stereotypes I’d prefer to see deconstructed. Excellent feedback, once I took the time to

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The Stress of Being Straight

Dan Savage opened one of his latest podcasts talking about a recent study whose results seem to indicate that straight guys are more depressed and stressed than out gay and bi guys. That’s right. That’s exactly what the study seemed

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Reassurance for the Awesome Ass Men

Dear Ass Men, Anal can be awesome, as you well know or are perhaps just discovering. Sexual orientation…has nothing to do with what part of the body you enjoy having stimulated. You are the only one who decides who you

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Questioning His Orientation?

Yes – it’s that time of the month again when I try to counter the automatic assumption that any man who enjoys getting fucked in the ass needs to question his sexual orientation. No, he really doesn’t. All he needs

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Podcast #28

 Pegging Paradise Podcast #28 ❤ M-appy Christma-Kwanz-ukkah, everyone! ❤ Pegging is most often different from what you see in porn. ❤ He’s 17 and wants to purchase toys clandestinely. Listen up all you under 18 people who want to get

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A Little Clarity

So, dear readers, it’s that time again. Every month, I write a post about how pegging is not gay. Why? Because the assumption is so very prevalent that monthly reminders are necessary for all the newcomers to my blog. A

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Monthly Misconception Alert

Pegging – an act where a woman uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate the anus of a man, heterosexually! Because, by definition, anything a man and woman do together is heterosexual.   Ahhh…if only it were that simple. I’ve been

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He’s Still….Not Gay

I’m in the mood for brevity and plain talk.. Every month I remind all of you – especially the new readers – that men who enjoy pegging are not automatically gay just because they like to be fucked in the

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Reader Question

Hi, I’m **** and I’m from Spain. I have a stable relationship with my girlfriend. I met her more than 5 years ago. Since 2 or 3 years, I receive anal pleasure from her, first with fingers and after have

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Nope, Not Gay

Women, if your man has just asked you about pegging and you are concerned he’s switching camps, don’t be. Men, if you are a man who has recently discovered the wealth of pleasure in your own ass and are afraid

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