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The Stress of Being Straight

Dan Savage opened one of his latest podcasts talking about a recent study whose results seem to indicate that straight guys are more depressed and stressed than out gay and bi guys. That’s right. That’s exactly what the study seemed

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Podcast #35

Pegging Paradise Podcast #35   ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ Happier Strap-on Couple – Status update from the guy in podcast #34 whose girlfriend wasn’t into pegging enough for his taste! I think

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The Interview

Ruby has had an interesting few days lately… A journalist writing for a local newspaper interviewed me. Yes, you read that right, interviewed me. Says he’s writing an article about some of us more adventuresome and sexually edgy people in

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Podcast #34

Pegging Paradise Podcast #34 ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ She’s awesome but he wishes she were just a tad more…enthusiastic about pegging him. What to do? ❤ He’s awesome but she wishes they

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Sex Nerd Sandra

Tonight I went to a meetup of a bunch of sex geeks and nerds in a well-appointed but rather loud restaurant/bar in Los Angeles with excellent martinis. This happens every month in So Cal but this was my first time

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Ruby Ryder shares pic of Todd Sanfield, from the photography book Motels/Hotels

Reassurance for the Awesome Ass Men

Dear Ass Men, Anal can be awesome, as you well know or are perhaps just discovering. Sexual orientation…has nothing to do with what part of the body you enjoy having stimulated. You are the only one who decides who you

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Podcast #33

Pegging Paradise Podcast #33 ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ Love letters from my last podcast – awwww, thanks everyone. ❤ Why don’t (most) Pro Dommes do pegging? ❤ Pegging Celebration! ❤ Their dildos

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The Night My Wife Pegged Me

This is an awesome article in Role Reboot about an initially reluctant man who explores pegging with his wife. The male point of view is rare to hear and his take on their sexual journey is really well written. Highly

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Podcast #32

Pegging Paradise Podcast #32 ❤ Pegging Classes scheduled at Kama Sutra Closet Saturday February 16th! ❤ Ruby talks about kink! Hers, other people’s and everyone’s. ❤ Kink words have different meanings to different people ❤ Once again – be careful

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Ruby Ryder shares pic of Todd Sanfield, from the photography book Motels/Hotels

Feb 16 Classes in CA!

Saturday February 16th, 2013 Ventura, California Kama Sutra Closet Strap-on Sex, or Pegging, offers an entirely new dimension of pleasure for couples to add to their treasure chest of sexual choices. Join Ruby Ryder for an evening of colorful and

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Podcast #31

Pegging Paradise Podcast #31 ❤ Taking it slow – from the concept of pegging to the decision to try it to the anal exploration with fingers, toys, dildos and finally the strap-on. Don’t miss any of those stages – they

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