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Objectifying

    Do I objectify men? Absolutely. I look at the tight ass of the young man in the supermarket and wonder what it might be like to fuck him…if I could make him moan, make him come. I objectify

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Afterwards…

  I feel closer to a man after I’ve pegged him. I feel honored with the openness he allows me to see. It takes a strong, confident man to allow vulnerability and role reversal. His vulnerability is a gift. I

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Outing Myself at the Market

I went to the gym tonight to work off some of the stress I’m feeling about talking to (hopefully) hundreds of people tomorrow about how pegging can deepen intimacy in a relationship. I won’t be talking to people who have

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BIL Conf March 2nd 4PM!

I will be speaking at the BIL Conference in Long Beach California Saturday March 2nd at 4PM on the Main Stage!! A New Frontier in Intimacy – Strap-on Sex What happens when a man and a woman set aside taboo

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Podcast #36

Pegging Paradise Podcast #36 ❤ Female Condom reduces mess for IBS peggee and they are shopping for a double ❤ She’s 25, loves pegging and is looking for a like-minded man who is sexually open and wants a relationship. I’ll

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The Interview

Ruby has had an interesting few days lately… A journalist writing for a local newspaper interviewed me. Yes, you read that right, interviewed me. Says he’s writing an article about some of us more adventuresome and sexually edgy people in

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We Cross Paths Again

Have you ever met someone you were so intensely attracted to that it’s a visceral experience? An experience so strong you are powerless to resist it? Yeah. Had that. Tonight. Again. He’s unavailable. Completely unavailable for so many good reasons.

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NaNoWriMo Final Count

25974   For my first try at the NaNoWriMo Challenge – I am actually pretty happy with the outcome. I had some lovely slices of time where I really did turn off the inner editor and just threw down the

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Gratitude 2012

I’m grateful to live in paradise with amazing people. I’m grateful I found my tribe (thanks, CatalystCon). I’m grateful for the men who want to meet me from the vanilla dating site…not knowing they stand to get potentially kinkified. I’m

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Sexual Honesty

A friend of mine writes the blog Sexual Candor. His recent post, “Why I came out to my parents as bisexual as a married adult” touched me, especially after all the talk about bisexuality that’s been happening here at Pegging

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